Cire,
I've read back over your previous posts, and you're WAY too hard on yourself. I think with longer hair, feminine glasses, HRT, and electrolysis (you look like you're a good candidate for laser, instead - good for you!), you'll be very close to totally passable. In essence, I don't even think you'll need FFS unless you want it for your nose.
I admire you for what you're doing - losing weight, investigating wearing a corset to get your waist down to a more feminine size, and so on. Just keep up the good work - and that includes going to a therapist to work out the issues as they arise.
Carol