My 2 year anniversary on HRT is a couple of weeks away and I now agree with my SO and Therapist that I'm fooling myself if I think I still pass easily as a male. In my own city where I am well known I have an major reputation as an Alpha male this seems to be intact with more questions as to maybe I'm gay. In Thailand I have been a complete male fail. I don't want to have short hair in order to defer being made and I'm trying to curb my gregarious and flambouyant personality but its getting so hard and my attitude as to how I wish to be perceived swings from day to day, but I need to pass as a male for a while longer. I have put my avatar which has no makeup at all and I have kinda blurred the image, its something I had mentally said I would do on my 2nd anniversary. How can I curb this potential male fail for another 9 months, without a haircut....?

Pony tail?

Ahhh you look all female in that pic Hon. Congrats and commiserations.

Long holiday?

I suppose he other way of looking at this is why you need the 9 month delay, can we help with ideas about that?

Yes , need some advice quickly. I have decided not to be a speaker as my voice sometimes switches fro male to female as I get excited and involved ... ayah...

pm me if you don't want to talk on the forum

Hi Cindy I will pm you - thanks