Right on Rotika    Sounds like you Rocked it!!! 

Hugs

Congrats!

Also, very glad you didn't end up crapping your pants! It's never a good look...

Quote from: Rotika on March 13, 2015, 02:52:03 AM
... In the end. No one except my bother in law said anything.. and all he did was give me a compliment. He said "Yunno Paul, you're probly the hottest girl I've seen in ohio sofar".. I didn't really know how to take it. ...

What a great story. And that sounds like an honest but awkward guy-type compliment. I mean, all of Ohio? Seriously hot.

Good for you, honey!

Quote from: Eveline on March 13, 2015, 06:40:43 AM
What a great story. And that sounds like an honest but awkward guy-type compliment. I mean, all of Ohio? Seriously hot.
Good for you, honey!

He's a southern boy from Georgia. Before I came out.. He was kind've the last person any of us would want for company. His favorite drunken thing to say "we need another Holocaust, but instead of jews lets kill all the queers." I really hate him at heart. I know what his true feelings about our community are/were. I know ppl can change. But He hasn't.These walla are paper thick and he likes to talk. Especialy wheen he's drunk. So anyways.. I'm worried that it wasn't a compliment at all. He talks in riddles when he wants to say something sly so that he can feel "smarter" than they are. I used to be quite confrontational about subjects like this with him. So now it's like he wants to pick on the new girl in the family lol
I do hope you're right though. I don't want all the drama. It just seems to follow me around regardless though.

Quote from: Ms Grace on March 13, 2015, 05:24:09 AM
Congrats!

Also, very glad you didn't end up crapping your pants! It's never a good look...

Yes Ms Grace, the horseshoe of doom is never a good look

Thank you everyone. For your support, kindness, understanding, compliments and company! There's a lot of you so I'm sorry if I don't list/quote you all. Just know you (yes you reading this) mean so much to me everyday. *HUGS*

Quote from: Rotika on March 13, 2015, 07:05:15 AM
He's a southern boy from Georgia. ... I'm worried that it wasn't a compliment at all. He talks in riddles when he wants to say something sly so that he can feel "smarter" than they are. ...

OK, that's different. I grew up in the South, and I know that type.

It could have been a warning - you be careful around him, especially when he's drinking.

Horseshoe of Doom?  I just shot unicorns out of my nose!

Hugs, Devlyn

Quote from: Rotika on March 13, 2015, 07:05:15 AM
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lets kill all the queers." I really hate him at heart. I know what his true feelings about our community are/were.
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I'm worried that it wasn't a compliment at all.
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You know how some of the worst haters are actually deeply closeted gays who hate that they feel that way?
Maybe he really was attracted to you, but still, stay clear, it could be dangerous.

Hey Rotika,

Wished I'd clicked on this last night, but I fell asleep in my chair looking at my monitor  , anyways this is just the coolest!!!

Will read page 2 when I come back from my walk, gosh, again, doing what you needed to do for you is just too cool.   Dani