Quote from: Lady Smith on April 07, 2015, 01:35:43 AM
Yes it does have relevance, but the discussion was starting to get too far away from the topic itself. Cindy is right, - a new topic specifically for discussing variations in the translation of the Bible is what is needed.
Okay

(PS: would you recommend any version of the Bible in English in regards to relative accuracy? I personally read the old King James's version, which came before the social concepts of homossexuality and has seemed accurate when I compare it to other translations and older Scripture versions. But is there any more recent one that's recommended? All I know is that the NIV's heavily biased, even if that holds true to most translations due to the nature of translating itself)
Well, let me try to go back to the topic at hand then.
This kind of rejection from fundamentalist Christians is really common, to the point many will unfortunately refuse to hear anything you have to say about it. It's been so with my family on my father's side, including my father - who said he "honestly doesn't see any difference between 'this' and homossexuality", and ran away from my house crying, saying he'd never see me again.
Other of my family members have contacted me on Facebook, always (except one cousin) with the same assumptions: that I am nothing and no one but the mask I presented to them, that I am fundamentally wrong according to them, to society, to TV, to the Bible and to everyone but myself, and that
it doesn't matter what I say, they wouldn't change their mind. Everyone has said so explicitly.
So it matters what
they say about the Bible. But if
I say that said interpretation doesn't make any sense according to the original Greek, that God makes no distinguishment between man and woman or circumcised and uncircumcised, and that it's hyprocisy to want to judge something they know nothing about (to the point of thinking it's homossexuality), that doesn't matter!
It's what makes me feel the most awful about them: not that they never knew anything about it and are prejudiced, but that they refuse any attempt of dialogue, and only want to shove their "love" and "truth" down my throat. As of late, I am seriously considering never seeing any of them again, and perhaps I'll block them on FB too if they bother me any more...
Of course, I'm really lucky - if anything, I consider myself truly blessed - that I have a mother who accepts me and tries her best to understand and help me. That's what love is about. But the undeniable truth is that most won't react that way, and many of those will never at all consider changing their minds.
I don't know how your mother will act in the future, or if it is worth the effort talking to her (I guess you should at least try, but then again you must've tried already). Still, you being yourself and having the right to be yourself should take priority over anything else.
If a "family member" rejects you in such a way, and if said behavior is persistent, they're not truly your family. Those who don't know you are strangers, and those who make you feel pain for the sake of themselves feeling better, oppressors. It's unfortunate, and it will leave scars, but your family is who you choose it to be.
I don't know if you're Christian yourself (I couldn't stomach reading much of the OP). But if you are, I highly recommend you seek a trans-friendly church, and explain to them how you feel and how your family has been treating you. That will not only renew your faith, but give you a true, understanding family.
Mt 12:46-50: (from the NIV, but I reckon it's good enough for this part)
46 While Jesus was still talking to the crowd, his mother and brothers stood outside, wanting to speak to him. 47 Someone told him, "Your mother and brothers are standing outside, wanting to speak to you."
48 He replied to him, "Who is my mother, and who are my brothers?" 49 Pointing to his disciples, he said, "Here are my mother and my brothers. 50 For whoever does the will of my Father in heaven is my brother and sister and mother."
Is 49:15:15 Can a woman forget her nursing child And have no compassion on the son of her womb? Even these may forget, but I will not forget you.
Nowadays's mothers have indeed been forgetting their children, but God is unchanging.