Well its been a while since I been on here, I have had a lot of therapy sessions, came out to my wife's family, came out to mine, started hrt, and I work way to much.... Anyway, I came out to everybody, and the reactions from my wife's fam was pretty decent, they said they love me and support me. My parents kinda acted like a relative died but they said if I need help to get it and even pay for some of my expenses with therapy and meds when I need it. But I can tell there not on team trans still, I wrote a long winded email to them explaining the science behind it, referenced medical journals neurological studies, and all the above, explained that I have felt that way since early child hood, all the normal stuff. But they still just don't understand it. I guess I haven't been dis owned....yet, we will have to see how it goes as I am losing a lot of weight and the changes aren't notice able yet. Anyway I was hoping that this could encourage people that are were I was at, which was thinking I couldn't transition because I would lose my family, or I couldn't pass or several different things, Well just be honest and open to the ones you love. Give them a chance to have a reasonable reaction. They might surprise you. Once you have made the step to come out its a little easier on the other side of that. Above all keep your head up and never give up, never surrender. Its never to late to be happy!
