Thanks ladies, so if I understand what you are saying. If I do my name change be prepared to come out at work because payroll will need to know asap? I guess I was sort of hoping to do my name change first because I don't currently own a passport and will most likely need one for when I have ffs. So rather then having to apply for one only to change it shortly after, I thought I could do the name change and still fly under the radar for a bit, until I settle on a transition date at work.
I guess that's not realistic though.