Well it finally happened. A homeless man who was asking me for change was walking by and said "Mam....sir...um I mean mam...can you buy me a burrito or have some change. I didn't give but pointed to about 50 cents in change on the ground. He got it. I went on my way. I was amused to say the least. That's the first time ever that happened. From a guy no less. Could it be I'm really entering that mam,sir,mam zone?

It's it really adrogyny stage?

Yes, seem like that's the reaction to your feminine impression.  I found that some people doesn't really know what is appropriate referral to use with trans person. They kindda mess us up with gay person, that's why sometime they call me sir.

Congrats Shawn, it sure sounds like it. Hugs
Mariah

Congrats! I'm also not at the stage of outright male fail most times but when presenting male now very few people use "sir"

Yay good news Shawn... happy for you 

L Katy

This is how I was dressed.

You are definitely on your way to the adrogyny stage, you are starting to look like a co-worker of mine, just younger and no one thought that she is a man