I went to see my general physician 2 months ago for a referral to an endocrinologist. It was a pretty basic visit that went something like:
Them:
"Let's check your weight, 150, alright."
"Let's check your blood pressure, looks good."
"Heart rate, looks good."
"So why are you here?"
Me:
"I think I'm transgendered and would like a referral to an endocrinologist."
Them:
"OK, let's see what we can do. Oh my, it doesn't look like we can refer you without a therapist's letter. Thanks for coming to see us today..."
So I paid my copay and went on with my life, started seeing a therapist, blah blah.
About 6 weeks go by and I get a bill in the mail from my doctor for the full amount of the visit. I'm like, wtf? Come to find out, my insurance denied the claim because the diagnosis was coded as "Gender Identity Disorder" and that isn't covered apparently.
It was a freaking general office visit where the dang doctor couldn't even help me, and I still have to pay for it! Seriously?!
I spoke to the head of my HR department and gave her all the paperwork from the doctor and insurance company, but her attitude on the phone made me think that there isn't anything she can do, or will do. Which isn't the impression I got from her when I came out to her a month ago. It sounded like she'd do whatever it took to get me proper medical coverage, but now I'm beginning to question that.