My brother went through my stuff while I was out earlier and stole some panties (not all luckily but 2/5...) and some tops I brought  secretly. It was no surprise, because it looked like a tornado hit my dresser. I contronted him about it and luckily my parents were near. He started raging about how it wasn't possible to make a penis a vagina (which is...) and how he didn't want to lose his brother because he's already lost his sister. (He didn't he just doesn't like her. I love my sister, she actually understands. And im.not a brother even with a flat chest) Really you only lose people by acting like that. My parents don't understand being trans either but knew he was wrong. Im not a violent person,so I was just trembling...

Hugs, Serenahikaru. You didn't deserve that. Going through someone else's things is illegal and disrespectful. I hope he gave you back the stuff he stole.

If you feel like you're physically in danger, please takes steps to protect yourself. If he puts his hands on you, that's domestic violence. Please stay safe.

sorry, hope things can be worked out.

Well, if it were me, I go and take *all* of his underwear - forcing him to go without!

dependent on his age it may simply be a matter of not understanding whats happening, and that he is not going to loose you.

every time I talk to someone about my transision I make sure to explain how I wont really be changing much at all, I will still be who i was. I had a friend that got stand offish at first not sure what to make but after a month or so of me being me he saw that I was still going to act more or less the same, though with nicer hair and breasts.

So he stole your underwear and some clothes??
Maybe he's trying it on himself lol :p

Quote from: RaptorChops on July 12, 2015, 11:05:11 PM
So he stole your underwear and some clothes??
Maybe he's trying it on himself lol :p

lol - zing!!!

Many, many, many years ago my brother stole ("borrowed") some of my... um... "I only read it for the articles" educational material... (not proud, but there you go). When I went up to his room to find and recover said material I left him a note saying "Next time buy your own!". Never heard anything about it from him and the "borrowing" stopped.

Quote from: Ms Grace on July 13, 2015, 12:16:52 AM
Many, many, many years ago my brother stole ("borrowed") some of my... um... "I only read it for the articles" educational material... (not proud, but there you go). When I went up to his room to find and recover said material I left him a note saying "Next time buy your own!". Never heard anything about it from him and the "borrowing" stopped.

Oh Lordy, this brings back memories!!!

Grace, I had a note from my sister (many many years ago), somewhat similar. It said something like 'I've left a dress and some underwear I don't use for you to borrow. Don't use my stuff again otherwise I'll tell Mum and Dad'

I'm sure I walked around with a red face of embarrassment for weeks.

Quote from: Cindy on July 13, 2015, 02:53:57 AM
Oh Lordy, this brings back memories!!!

Grace, I had a note from my sister (many many years ago), somewhat similar. It said something like 'I've left a dress and some underwear I don't use for you to borrow. Don't use my stuff again otherwise I'll tell Mum and Dad'

I'm sure I walked around with a red face of embarrassment for weeks.

Your sister was a cool customer, given the circumstances. 

Quote from: luna nyan on July 13, 2015, 03:36:42 AM

Quote from: Cindy on July 13, 2015, 02:53:57 AM
Oh Lordy, this brings back memories!!!

Grace, I had a note from my sister (many many years ago), somewhat similar. It said something like 'I've left a dress and some underwear I don't use for you to borrow. Don't use my stuff again otherwise I'll tell Mum and Dad'

I'm sure I walked around with a red face of embarrassment for weeks.

Your sister was a cool customer, given the circumstances. 

She was and she is. She opened her arms completely to her sister when I came out. She said at the time. "I will miss my brother but I love my sister" I love her as well!

I have two younger brothers (bothers) and they used to dig about in my room when I was at tech or at work looking for cigarettes and beer.  One time they found a bra and a pair of panties I thought I'd hidden away really well and they gave me a hard time about it.  Fortunately they thought they were trophies from a 'conquest' or else I might've been in real trouble.
One of the reasons why I changed over to drinking stout and smoking a pipe was to stop them stealing from me.  I liked stout, they didn't.  You should've seen the faces they pulled when I gave them some to try.   

Quote from: RaptorChops on July 12, 2015, 11:05:11 PM
So he stole your underwear and some clothes??
Maybe he's trying it on himself lol :p

Hahaha, looking at how he got angry about it. I think it can certainly be true.

But I know how it feels, OP. My stepfather violates my privacy this way a lot, then makes snark comments how all of it is embarassing and that i'm seeing "ghosts"

Yeah...

Maybe tease him and say it's fine if he wants to borrow a top 

Thank you all for your support. ^^ I don't really think I could tease him though. He's 24 and has anger management problems...

My brother is 36 also has an anger problem, was an alcoholic, and has mental issues. He stares at himself a lot in the mirror, has only had one girlfriend and it completely ruined dating for him, he is extremely obsessive about things like his current job, the people there, and HIS HAIR. When he got drunk he would snap and get verbally abusive with my parents.

Anyways to make my long story a few years ago my brother got so drunk he passed out on my parents bed in a thong and a wig. That's how my parents found out about him cross dressing lol. He liked dressing up as a woman, and he liked how he felt going out in public as one (he has collected a lot of girls clothing as well as dildos, heels, and silicone boobs)

He got slapped with a DUI and got sent to jail for 6 months a year and half ago. He's now back home and hasn't cross dressed in public since.