Quote from: Jessie Ann on July 25, 2015, 10:59:21 AM
I am a lawyer and make a very good income. I have been an attorney for almost 30 years but only transitioned earlier this year. I know of a number of other attorneys who are transgender. I also know some in the computer industry, business management and other technical fields. All of them make a very good living. It is possible to be very successful and be transgender. Unfortunately, some of the ability to be successful depends on where you live and work. Some places are very transgender friendly others, not so much.
I am an attorney as well, although I've only been practicing for 7 years. I have found that in my field and specialization, it really doesn't matter what name or gender appears at the bottom of the pleadings, but rather the content of the writing. The only places I have worked at for others were as a judicial clerk, and at a legal aid clinic. One thing I have found is that the legal aid clinic went out of their way to out my transgendered colleagues in order to aggrandize themselves and show how 'open-minded' they were. Frankly, this is why I remained closeted throughout my entire stay there.
A funny story though. I wrote a declaration (sworn statement) on items that I had personal knowledge on. I used the name on my bar card (male), but every single pronoun that I referred to myself in was female. My supervising attorney said "You used 'she' and 'her' to refer to yourself." I blurted out (what I thought was under my breath) "wishful thinking, I guess." and slapped my hand to my mouth and turned the deepest red. Thankfully, my supervisor, an old-school lesbian, never mentioned it again.
I remember we had a firm-wide retreat where one of the lectures was on 'gender awareness and sensitivity'. As a part of this exercise, we were told to stand in a position in the room. Those who identified as female on the East Wall, and those who identified as male on the other wall. Then it was who identifies as homosexual or heterosexual on the North-South wall spectrum. I remember looking at the (trans) dude and said "I am not outing myself to you, or anyone else in this firm. This is on a need to know basis, and you don't need to know." and sat in the dead center of the room. Of course, the cat-calls from both sides was apparent (I also considered the fact that I am the only conservative in the firm), and in the single coolest thing that has ever happened to me with this, my supervising attorney sat down back to back with me, and said "he's right you know."
So, as far as welcoming goes, I guess I would have to say that I would prefer a workplace carry on business as usual, no matter how I present, or when I full-time. I figure the less disruption in the workplace the better.
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