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Started by Goat, September 22, 2015, 06:26:57 AM

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Goat

Hey everyone!

I'm currently male.
I am a bit confused on what I am trans wise or not, I am attracted to women however when I look at a woman I find attractive I want to be her as well. I know sexual orientation and gender are different things but It's making me confused if I am transgender or not. I have never thought about being with a guy ever and I never will, I'm am only attracted to women. Its like everything I find only in women I find attractive wether that be her clothes, make up, face ect... I want as well.

Has anyone that has transition or is going to felt like this?

Thanks! ^^
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katrinaw

Hey I can relate to all you are talking about...

I always knew I was female, and of course I wanted to be with my kind, then as I got older and the differences really kicked home I envied the clothes, everything that made them women, the hardest bit for me was watching my children being born, so wishing it were me.... But alas my parents and nature made sure I was not capable of that!

It is quite normal, it may be good to see a gender therapist to help you find yourself, although deep inside you probably already know who you really are.

Hope that helps slightly..

Katy xxxx
Long term MTF in transition... HRT since ~ 2003...
Journey recommenced Sept 2015  :eusa_clap:... planning FT 2016  :eusa_pray:

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Live life, embrace life and love life xxx
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Goat

Oh okay thanks. I'm waiting to see a therapist on the nhs but I don't think I can wait a year so i'm going to my gp tomo to go privately with that.

Can I ask did you feel the same when you saw a woman you wasn't attracted to? Because It only seems to be women I find attractive most of the time.

Many Thanks!
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Laura_7

You could have a look here:
https://www.susans.org/forums/index.php/topic,192133.msg1713375.html#msg1713375

And its possible sexual orientation changes a bit with trans people.
With or without hrt.
Its possible they get more comfortable within themselves, and thus may find attraction from males for example more pleasing than before.


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