Holloween -- "Probably not the optimal occasion for resolving gender presentation issues."

-- Bere's the deal: You open up the door on your closet, and November 1, the door stays open in collective social memory. You've presented "YOU" as a costume, a disguise. It's not a costume!

You're not in a disguise.

Halloween not a good day to "come out" ! ! ! ☆☆☆ And that's what happens.