Ok. Yuck, this is gross but....



I'm about 6 weeks postop... I know that's nothing and healing takes a long time but I'm worried about a little issue I have... When I dilate, I pee a bit... Not buckets... Like, a splash comes out when I remove the dilator though.. Is this normal? Does it go away? Anyone know what I'm talking about or is this only me?...... Obviously I pee before I dilate to stop this from happening but, it doesn't seem to make a difference.. I'm going to give it another week or two to improve, or go see my gp about it...

Isabelle:

You may be pressing your dilator against your prostate (your new G spot) as you insert the dilator.  In which case what is being emitted is the liquid that sperm would swim in during ejaculation.  Otherwise known as seminal fluid.

If you feel no spasm in your bladder, that is probably not urine.

Try inserting the dilator in a more downward angle.  The prostate is just inside the entrance to the vagina.

It should pass as your body heals.  I had it early on too.

-Sandy

I'm 100% certain it's pee.... The prostate thing you mention is one of the most horrific things I've read... I want my prostate removed... Immediately..

Quote from: Isabelle on October 05, 2015, 06:19:19 AM
I'm 100% certain it's pee.... The prostate thing you mention is one of the most horrific things I've read... I want my prostate removed... Immediately..

Hello, I wish they had removed prostate at time of SRS.  Makes a mess even at the slightest arousal/stimulation (even pain) and the fluid stinks!

Not sure I even had urine expelled during the dilation process.  But there is a lot going on, so I might have.  Pretty sure it will settle down as the post-SRS days click upward. Progress/healing is counted in months!
So what did you read about the prostate?

Thank you,
Anne

the words "seminal fluid" made me shudder... That's all. No more mentions of prostates.
It's absolutly pee im dealing with.... Only slightly less gross... 

Your vag is  close to your bladder and you are compressing it with the dilator. As you new uretha is still swollen and little muscle control you are having a little dribble.

What happens when you have a sneezing fit?

Hello,
The urethra runs adjacent to the new vaginal wall so it wouldn't be shocking for this to happen considering the location.  As for healing, a sprain ankle takes up to 6-8 weeks , even up to 12 weeks if it is severe.  The swelling in the area with all the new construction as well as new stimulus will create all sorts of new sensations as well as everything gaining its new function.  I wouldn't panic in the least, as long as you're continent when you're out and about.