Hi April,
A big Aussie welcome to Susan's family. It's good of you to drop in and say "Hi". Hope you like it here, and you stay for a while.
There is a mountain of information, resources and friendship waiting for you here, you just need to jump in start talking and ask any question you like. You're quite safe here and we are very accepting.
Depending on the format of your HT, personally I wouldn't be planning FFS or BA for at least 5 years. I've known some women who've had BA and are still growing, which makes things a bit awkward. Nevertheless, sounds like you have a great support system. That's essential.
Looking forward to hearing more of your story in time to come, but in the meantime, be safe, well and happy.
Lotsa huggs
Catherine