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Na Fog of Transition

Started by FluffyPunk, November 25, 2015, 09:43:05 AM

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FluffyPunk

A Booty??? Hell id bi lucky iffin I could get a Bummie, all I got now is na tops o mi legs.
But then again na men I have datedan such all loved it small so whom am I to argue.
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FluffyPunk

Know what? Theres a lesson learned rite there!

Iffin mi mano tells mi m beautiful, whom am I to argue!
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Harley Quinn

I don't think that we've touched on the cardinal rule of Estogen... Never text, post, or e-mail on an estrogen drunk brain... its never on topic and extremely hard to follow. LOL! I would love to post some of the exaples of this but it would be jibberish... I'm still trying to figure out the point of a few of those I've text friends before... ha ha ha...
At what point did my life go Looney Tunes? How did it happen? Who's to blame?... Batman, that's who. Batman! It's always been Batman! Ruining my life, spoiling my fun! >:-)
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FluffyPunk

LOL oh hell yes!!! an that goes hand in hand with,
>> when yer at a low in E don't start a discussion with yer s/o's Mum about ANITHING!
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Harley Quinn

I think we're on like 28 or 30 or something.... lol! Tattoos should be somewhere in here I'm sure... I just haven't ever been on the wrong side of one. Mine is fairly unisex, but perhaps odd for a girl crazy "girl"... but still works well in guy mode.  ::)  Feel free to toss some in...
At what point did my life go Looney Tunes? How did it happen? Who's to blame?... Batman, that's who. Batman! It's always been Batman! Ruining my life, spoiling my fun! >:-)
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FluffyPunk

not sure still gotta put em in 1 list but m lazy But indeed on another site I have had to talk mor than 1 out of putting stupid things that they thought were cool on themselves. So....
LESSON#?>>>> 6 month wait rule plus confirmation of atleast 1 friend an 1 enemy bifor getting a tat.
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Ameilia Pond

Pure freaking gold you two.

Perfect read while waiting at the doctors office.

I'm 2 months in on HRT, so I learned a ton from this.
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Harley Quinn

Quote from: Ameilia Pond on November 27, 2015, 06:02:02 PM
Pure freaking gold you two.

Perfect read while waiting at the doctors office.

I'm 2 months in on HRT, so I learned a ton from this.
Thought you might like that!    :laugh:
At what point did my life go Looney Tunes? How did it happen? Who's to blame?... Batman, that's who. Batman! It's always been Batman! Ruining my life, spoiling my fun! >:-)
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FluffyPunk

Hey Ameilia thanks an best of luck to ye in yer evolution. Ya we all make silly, stupid an some potentially dangerous mistakes in this. Its a pitty mor aren't willing to laugh at themselves an explore this. Feel free to add yer own learned lessons ye pick up along na way funny or not. M seriously like woah!!! I helped someone? Well thanks love glad to bi of service. M just creeping up on 10 months on hrt with a loooooooonnnnnnng wae to go, so iffin I hang about M sure there will bi mor... Much love hon stay an play safe.
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FluffyPunk

Danimin another one... In contrast to na Estrogen Drunk brain lesson, Never Delete accounts, erase contacts, or get into conversations with anione where ye tell em as ye see it, when yer at yer low point in E (if ye inject) an feeling really emotional!!! ;)
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Ameilia Pond

I don't really have much to add quite yet, though, I know that time is coming.

Harley has been an amazing friend. Uh-ma-zing energy.

I'm sure in the next few months, I will start to come into my own. Have family to come out too still and some situations that I will need to face, but it will be worth it in the end.

Just keep making me smile girls :)
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Lady Smith

Quote from: FluffyPunk on November 27, 2015, 07:53:07 AM
ok so nobody wears thongs except FluffyPunk an a bunch of bikers then...
Thanks fer chiming in Lady Smith, care to share an rejoice with us insome na silly mistakes ye made coming out na gate or along na way???

Wearing a thong was certainly not a problem after I'd had my orchie and HRT had shrunk wart down a lot.  Mind you being a non-binary biker girl type I was nearly always wearing jeans so nobody could know what underwear I was wearing anyway.  My greatest triumph was walking into a gas station in full biker girl kit, - helmet on, feather and bead earrings, plait down my back, fingerless leather gloves, silver jewelry, boots, jeans and leather jacket, - and the guy behind the counter nervously addressing me as 'Ma'am'.

Before I came to my senses though and got past thinking I had to embrace the other side of the binary in order to transition I can remember well the first time I attempted to use make up and ended up helpless with laughter in front of the mirror.  I still can't do make up to save my life and moisturiser and lipstick is only as far as I'll go if I have to dress up posh for some reason.

My first attempts at padding my bra were also hilarious and after a short while I didn't bother with it anymore.  Once I got past being so sore and tender while my breasts were growing I gave up on the bra as well.  Once I'd found myself work as a social worker I had to conform though and I had myself professionally fitted with a bra which was an interesting experience.  I was nervous, but the corsetiere was completely professional which helped a lot.

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RachelsMantra

One mistake I see a lot of trans girls make when they are growing out their hair is getting too many trims. Years go by and it never gets long. I'd rather have longer hair with a few split ends than short hair with no split ends.
Started HRT on September 1st, 2015.
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FluffyPunk

Oh yes Rachel, M 2 1/2 yrs into growing from a shaved head an have yet to cut it.
HAIR LESSON>>> Length first!!!
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FluffyPunk

When yer soooo in love with na new found freedom an sense of beauty wearing skirts that theyre all ye wear, an yer G Therapist is trying to point out na realities of na changing season to winter an she tells ye to consider getting some pants an jeans..... LISTEN!!!
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Dena

I have one post transition not to long ago. I wore the perm in my avatar for many years and I got tired of having sitting for three hours getting the perm. Then there is the last 3 or 4 weeks where it relaxes to the point where it's wavy hair instead of curly hair. I decided it was time to let it grow out straight like it naturally wants to. My big mistake was going for a cleanup cut without a hairstyle in mind and trusting my cutter who is cut happy. Combine that with my mother who was viewing all this and liked me in a crew cut. I ended up scalped with very short hair on the side and slightly longer hair on the top looking kind of like a pixy cut. It has taken me that last 6 months to grow out the length I need and that's why my avatar is around 30 years old. I don't have enough hair length to take another picture.

Moral is don't let a cut happy cutter and your mother pick out your hair cut unless you know exactly what they have in mind.
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Harley Quinn

Truth! They love the scissors! Taking 8" off the top 1/4" at a time... so you dont notice until theyre done!

When that happens it makes me wish they'd have just scalped me in one fail swoop... then they could atleast have donated the hair rather than 8 lbs of hair clippings...
At what point did my life go Looney Tunes? How did it happen? Who's to blame?... Batman, that's who. Batman! It's always been Batman! Ruining my life, spoiling my fun! >:-)
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FluffyPunk

Lesson I learned just recently, Iffin ye want yer brows shaped perfect go to na place that charges $18 no $8 lol
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Harley Quinn

Quote from: FluffyPunk on November 28, 2015, 10:35:56 AM
Lesson I learned just recently, Iffin ye want yer brows shaped perfect go to na place that charges $18 no $8 lol
Yes never cheap out on the brows! There seems to be a finite amount of times that you can mess with them before they're gone for good!
At what point did my life go Looney Tunes? How did it happen? Who's to blame?... Batman, that's who. Batman! It's always been Batman! Ruining my life, spoiling my fun! >:-)
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FluffyPunk

Quote from: Harley Quinn on November 28, 2015, 10:58:04 AM
Yes never cheap out on the brows! There seems to be a finite amount of times that you can mess with them before they're gone for good!

Indeed Harley, an that leads mi to a lesson I figured out in na very beginning bifor even G therapy an hrt. Iffin eyebrows mae only bi plucked so mani tymes Why shave legs every dae??? This Winter Solstace It will bi 3 years of using an epilator from mi chest down (yes). Na continuance of this has greately reduced na growth an amout of hair I get. Its at na point where mi arm hair now comes in no different than a cis woman's. It's lighter an thinner an mor sparse.
Lesson>>> Shaving every dae sux, epilation lasts about 2 weeks of babi smoove, also waxing costs $£ every tyme, mi epilator cost $35.
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