Quote from: Amoré on January 23, 2016, 09:39:34 AM
Why do people think we can choose to be trans? it is so stupid I did not choose this but my whole world gets destroyed being trans it sucks
Well this happens ironically precisely because so many trans people try to "choose" not to be. If you read your own past posts you will see many instances where you yourself talk about choosing to give up transition for the sake of the woman you love... by extension most people figure that if you can "choose not to transition" then you can choose.
I'm sure you realise now that choice is in fact impossible you are what you are and you just have to get on with it. Yes it is painful, and yes I do understand that it tears you apart, but the truth is the sooner you stop trying to kid yourself that you can choose to stop, and just get on with doing what has to be done the sooner the pain will start to ease.
Oh and Alcohol never makes anything better. It clouds your judgement, magnifies any emotions you are feeling, and makes you make very poor choices. If you are drunk you will not feel better - you just feel more depressed, and to make matters worse the fact that judgement is then impaired robs one of the ability to do the right things to make it better. So be smart and try to take some positive steps. You can get though this but you have to start to take positive and not negative steps.
Sorry if that sounds harsh. Sometimes the truth is difficult, but it is sadly still sound advice, and meant well.
