This is a very recent and compelling concept I been thinking; bodybuilding. I figure if I work out my legs, hips, glutes mainly, and lightly on my abs I will get a more feminine body. Ignore the arms and shoulders. Wear a corset to waist train the waist as well after workouts.

By getting a huge butt, small waist, huge legs it would look more feminine than being top heavy. Shoulders are too wide for average female so compensate with big legs and hips.

Heres an example of the look.

http://2.bp.blogspot.com/-AKtmBZI2VH4/VbLK2Xq9nPI/AAAAAAAALBM/zq9W1VhWgJ0/s1600/Captura%2Bde%2BTela%2B2015-07-24%2Ba%25CC%2580s%2B20.22.21.jpg

Ive been trying this same idea for the last few months.

I concentrate on building legs, butt and hips, while working my core with stretching and constant movement in every imaginable direction. I do this while dancing to loud music, I have playlists setup for high energy cardio followed by groovy songs for stretches and core exercise. I do dumbell curls to try and tone my arms, but low weight high reps. I also do boob exercises to try and lift and bring them more to the center. After 3-4 months, I see a great improvement but still need work, Im hoping that the HRT helps redistribute what i cant seem to move with workouts.

Yes to the high reps on arms. It sounds like you are going to have an awesome figure after all that work. Do you think you look more passable?

I notice when I bodybuild miserable thoughts about my life goes away because I keep myself occupied with my looks to such an extent ; diet, health. 

Also my job rewards those who are fit too... So it doesnt hurt to play to that game too.

More passable.... hmmmm

I dont know... I look better to me, Im a large person so how passable I will be, I dont know

Ive surely grown in the hips legs butt, and my upper body is shrinking. I think I have a more fem look, but Im still in that "Im prolly just delusional" stage...

This not me, but a pic I found on a neat website that lets you put in sizes and find women who are similarly sized/shaped. I think I have a shape similar to this.

http://www.mybodygallery.com/photos-38757-body-shape.htm?StartAt=6#searchForm

I used to be very wide shoulders and narrow butt hips legs, years ago when I used to work out, I never did any lower body...just upper, so I had some spindly legs and a little butt with no hips