I still get called sir though especially if I don't wear make up and dress up. I'm actually gaining weight again now 275 but it's in my bra... And Butt finally lol. A healthy being for me would be 175 to 205 and meaning I can wear size 13 instead of 18/20 dress and pants. I suppose being six feet tall and large frame (except my face hands and legs) adds to masculinity too.