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Have you ever talked to a classmate/coworker or even just eavesdropped on a complete stranger and "the trans subject" comes up? They weren't necessarily trying to be transphobic or offensive in any way, but they say something that just slightly irritates you or you even let out a little chuckle because of how many times you have heard it.
Here is a place where you can quote them and talk about it...
Here's an example from my personal experiences:
Any tiny bit of femininity is broadcasts as "proof" you are really not transgender and that you are just, "a confused girl." (vice-versa for trans females)
I thought this would be interesting!