Quote from: objectionyourhonour on July 03, 2016, 05:58:55 PM
If you're looking for new workouts I'd suggests swimming (particularly freestyle and butterfly strokes) to build shoulder muscle. I swim competitively and it's really improved the tone/definition of my arms and shoulders.
You just gave me a very good reason to use those 11 entrance tickets for the swimming pool that I have here
I can add a couple of advice under the sub-section Attitude is Your Friend...
A dancer once said something illuminating: "women lead with the hips, men lead with the shoulders". To put it into practice, If you walk like a woman you propel yourself forward one hip at the time, left, right, left, right... man to that with the shoulder. It's a subtle movement, and females do that only when running.
The other thing is voice attitude: keep it short, no matter what you say. Lower your natural tone and think yourself as a telegraph operator, than add what might sound to you as a commanding note but for guys is just assertiveness.
Both things worked for me, and I usually don't pass: now I have upgraded to mystifying people.
On the clothing side of life, I only have male clothes and trousers helps straightening the line of your legs. Shirts too are great, because fall straight from shoulders to hips without giving you an hourglass figure.
In general there are two things that guys have that might seem to be present in small doses but when you try you realise that to obtain that effect you need to have them in spades: muscles and confidence. I'm not talking about a beefy boss, just your skinny dude has more muscles in his body and command in his attitude that we might think.
Source: years of martial arts
This topic is going to be interesting.
