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What is your relationship status, FTM only

Started by mrs izzy, August 08, 2014, 11:12:02 PM

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My FTM status is

Single and staying that way forever
10 (6.9%)
Divorced and staying that way forever
3 (2.1%)
Dating a Cis Male
13 (9%)
Dating a Cis Female
24 (16.6%)
Dating a Mtf
1 (0.7%)
Dating a Ftm
3 (2.1%)
Married to Cis Male
6 (4.1%)
Married to Cis Female
14 (9.7%)
Married to a Ftm
1 (0.7%)
Married to a Mtf
1 (0.7%)
Single and wish to date a FTM
1 (0.7%)
Single and wish to date a MTF
2 (1.4%)
Single and wish to date a Cis Female
12 (8.3%)
Single and wish to date a Cis Male
11 (7.6%)
Divorced an wish to date a Ftm
0 (0%)
Divorced and wish to date a MTF
0 (0%)
Divorced and wish to date a Cis Female
1 (0.7%)
Divorced and wish to date a Cis Male
0 (0%)
Other can explain.
42 (29%)

Total Members Voted: 126

vanderpn

Quote from: Smudge on October 03, 2014, 11:03:04 PM
Single, with underlying circumstances. I would really have a relationship with anyone regardless of physical gender depending on whether or not their personality meshes with mine. The problem I am stuck facing is that a lot of the people who are interested in me are very touchy-feely/ clingy people, the type of trait I despise.
Underlying circumstance is that I have Aspergers so I am blunt, too truthful, and I'm hypersensitive to touch, sound, smell and taste. These are the traits that seem to turn people away from me.

I have similar experiences. I'm pansexual, so I would consider dating anyone in that regard. But, I'm on the autism spectrum too, and I have a lot of trouble forming relationships in general. I'm hoping to work on just building some friendships before I even think about dating!  ;)
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SgtSalt

I put down wishing to date a cis male but I suppose that's not entirely true because I wouldn't mind date another trans man at all. I'm still pretty young so I've never had a boyfriend before and I'm glad I haven't. I still don't think I'm emotionally ready for one, especially not with my current body. I want one, but not enough where it's unbearable and I need to go find one.
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WarGrowlmon1990

Engaged to a cis male, but I'm not sure how long it's going to last. I've come out to him and have had to remind him multiple times but he still doesn't quite get it.
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arice

I can't vote on my phone...
Married to a cis het male who is really struggling with my identity of late... so that could definitely change in the future.

I am attracted to masculine folk.

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WolfNightV4X1

Oh boy, uhhh....lets call it 'single and wish to stay that way'. Previously was dating an MTF who wasnt out at the beginning now I'm with another MTF, we're not dating for a number of reasons, but I'm with her so we have a relationship of sorts.

Relationshippy things have been a tough call for my life. I always assumed I was straight because it was the only 'right' way to be and I liked guys so I didnt mind. Turns out like being trans I had repressed female-appreciating tendencies that make me homoflexible/bi. Unfortunately, being trans is hard. I'm neither male or female so I can't fit a mold where most people would like me, unless they were bi. This is a reason I avoided transitioning for the longest time before I decided 'screw it', I was dating that girl at the time and knew she'd like me either way (and eventually I found out vice versa) I also cant successfully date a woman without a lot of fire from my social situation, it'd be rough. So ideally if I ever partnered up officially it'd be with a male, perhaps...or someone who wouldn't mind acting the male part...or maybe I'll finally decide to say 'screw it' on that too and date who I love.


Either way, I'm single now, doesnt matter to me, I'm happy with a lot of people I love and I get by on what I need socially


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Wolf Man

Married to a cis female since September. Romantic relationship currently at 8 years. Total relationship at 10 years. She was there before transition and she has been the best support.
I'll be there someday, I can go the distance
I will find my way, If I can be strong
I know every mile, Will be worth my while

When I go the distance, I'll be right where I belong
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Rufio

I'm single and not looking, but I'm not committed to staying that way forever, so Other for me. I think it'd be down to the individual if I started dating.
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KarlMars

Single. I was dating a cis male until he found out I was trans.

Kylo

There definitely seems to be a much higher incidence of immediate or outright rejection by cis male partners than cis female partners among long-term couples involving FTM. Women seem to be more responsive to the "let's see how it goes" train of thought for longer than men; the inflexibility of many cis males is an unfortunate phenomenon.

It's the same story for me; he gets it completely and knows another male isn't sexually compatible with himself. Resolved to pursue platonic relationship because we enjoy each others' presence and support. Not complaining. I'm actually much happier in platonic arrangements - something I found it hard to admit to myself, but I really am.
"If the freedom of speech is taken away, then dumb and silent we may be led, like sheep to the slaughter."
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Nathanos

I guess I'm voting "Other", because I'm single, but I would date anyone regardless of their gender.
I've already accepted my fate as a forever alone crazy cat man, though.
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Berserk

I wasn't sure what to choose on the poll. I put "Dating a Cis Female" but at the same time seems like a casual way of putting it. So to clarify, I'm in a long-term common law relationship with a cis woman. We aren't married but under provincial law we're common law so it's practically the same in the government's eyes.
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Platzhalter

Other: In a seemingly stable relationship with a cisguy - not sure if some of you would call this dating, but to me (due to cultural differences probably) dating is what you call something you only do when not in a relationship in order to get one and definitely not the case when you already live together.
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Ryuichi13

I don't know where the actual choices are posted at, but I'm a FtM in a longterm relationship with another FtM that's forced to be genderfluid for financial and familial reasons.

Ryuichi

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TheOtherLucas

in a committed, albeit long distance, relationship with a cis woman. She's been with me before I came out and stays supportive throughout my entire journey <3
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eyesk8rboi

I chose "Dating" a Cis Female.........But we're techinically not dating, we're talking...However we've been together in the past and our intentions are take things slow and move forward romantically if all things go well...Soooo -fingers crossed-



Hypothetically if I wasn't committed to a future with this amazing girl, I'd look into dating a MTF. =w=
Steven Lee | 24 | Dog Dad | Beginner Figure Skater | Aspiring Writer


:icon_arrow:Started counseling on June 11th, 2017
:icon_arrow:Received HRT Letter on July 2nd, 2017
:icon_arrow:HRT Consultation with Doctor on July 16th, 2017







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Corax

I'm single and even though I don't plan on staying single for all of my life I won't start dating or actively looking for a partner until I'll have finished my medical transition.

Dating with those body parts has never worked for me, I've never been able to let anyone get remotely close to me and hence have never been in an actual relationship.
I also still don't want anyone close or let alone touching that body before it will finally be repaired now.

Oh, and I couldn't care less whether my hypothetical future partner would be cis or trans, that doesn't matter to me personally.
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sarah1972

Married... still working out the trans shocker from 15 month ago but it seems to be going better recently...

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Rowena_Ellenweorc

Married, but as my husband likes to put it, 'not lovers'.  He's still working out his feelings about me being trans, but likely heading toward divorce.  But also even if we're divorced, probably gonna live together for the kids until the situation changes relationship status wise.

Admittedly we've not been lovers for a while, due to daughter's health issues, and my own health issues. (I'm also learning that part of it is also because of my dysphoria.)
~Ren

Born May 1989 - Assigned Female
October 2016 - Came out to self/online
Feb/March 2017 - Officially came out to husband
April 2017 - Realized I'm Non-Binary
June 2017 - Started Therapy
August 2017 - Came out to parents
October 2017 - modified FB profile
November 26, 2017 - Came out https://www.facebook.com/notes/karen-ren-losee/please-read/10155966104353223/ on FB

"Walking beside the guilty and the innocent
How will you raise your hand when they call your name?"
- Bon Jovi "We weren't Born to follow"

I am done crying over not being feminine.
I am done griping about being too masculine.
I will be me.
And that's a non-binary being.
I am... ME!

....

This... is MY story
The story of a girl trapped in a guy's body.
A boy trapped in a girl's body.
No.  Its the story of a... human being.
- From one of my poems
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eyesk8rboi

Quote from: transguymac on June 28, 2017, 10:11:47 AM
I chose "Dating" a Cis Female.........But we're techinically not dating, we're talking...However we've been together in the past and our intentions are take things slow and move forward romantically if all things go well...Soooo -fingers crossed-



Hypothetically if I wasn't committed to a future with this amazing girl, I'd look into dating a MTF. =w=

Aye! It's been a minute....We're official now. Just to update. ;)
Steven Lee | 24 | Dog Dad | Beginner Figure Skater | Aspiring Writer


:icon_arrow:Started counseling on June 11th, 2017
:icon_arrow:Received HRT Letter on July 2nd, 2017
:icon_arrow:HRT Consultation with Doctor on July 16th, 2017







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Ryuichi13

Quote from: transguymac on October 24, 2017, 01:41:25 PM
Aye! It's been a minute....We're official now. Just to update. ;)
Congrats!

Its always great to hear about people in love!  Helps override the bad stuff we hear about in the news.

Be happy you two! [emoji173]

Ryuichi

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