I swear, I been "stealth" so long, i forgot who knows n who doesn't. And that ->-bleeped-<-'s driving me crazy. I need a shrink. I have a GREAT set of friends, that know my past, and just as many that don't ->-bleeped-<-. It's so tiring, I wish sometimes I could just be "open" but that's not me, at all. I need a shrink - in Minnesota, your ref's are for sure appreciated...