Quote from: tgirlamc on August 27, 2016, 11:42:49 AM
Hi ezjuliani!!!
I hope all is well...Just a thought on this post...It sounds like you may be missing out on all your life has to offer by waiting for a day that will never come.... "Perfect" is a pretty unattainable goal... I don't know how you identify...CD, Trans etc but if it is your goal to transition, I would urge you to get out there and mix it up with the rest of life... It is easy to get paralyzed by fear.... You may picture going out in public much like the end of a Franknstein movie with villages throwing rotten vegetables and chasing you with torches and pitchforks but I think most of the girls on this site will tell you the reality is no one really cares, people are more self involved than to care how you're dressed...
Anyway, I don't mean to lecture at all... It just makes me sad when someone is not living their life the way they want because of misplaced fears... Life is short and life is made for living in the manner we choose
Take Care,
Ashley 
Hey Ezjuliani,
What Ashley says is so, so true. Most people are too busy with their own business. Just start out with baby steps. A short trip somewhere. Just blend in - wear what the other women wear and you'll be fine.
My first trip out... about 300 years ago.... okay 30 perhaps. was to return a VHS tape to Blockbuster. I stepped out of the car, walked across the parking lot, put it in the drop box and got back in the car!
It doesn't sound like much to me now, but at the time it took all my courage!
You are not going to be perfect without practice. That means being quite imperfect when you start out. You don't climb Mount Everest by jumping from the bottom to the top. You put one foot in front of the other.
Hugs!
Rhonda
