Hi all,
Interesting post! Ont he one hand we girls want to lose wheight (cultural demans, ugh) but want the "rack"...
The trick (if any) is for fat to "shift" around (for lack of a better set of words) to hit the right places...for that...there hast to be
some fat LOL
I myself still have that "male spare tire"

around, but, I am two kilograms (some four pounds?) over my "ideal" wheight...I am supposed to wheigh in at 85 kilograms...I have 88 to drag around

so some fat is there...hehe
See-sawing wheight is a trick, thanks for that, RobynD.
Starving is not an option, letting go of cultural demands is...so, okay, I have this "spare" around...okay, parade any 50 cis-women my age (52) and you'll see some "extra" around in most of them.
By the way...most of my female colleagues agree on one thing: you drop wheight...the rack goes first...sorry girls

Love
Melissa