I get your point, Virginia, and I get the song, unfortunately the problem here isn't truth, it's deep-seated homophobia on her part. Why else would we be getting a divorce and changing absolutely nothing else? She's still my best friend although she mourns her husband who never quite was, she makes plans for the future with me and wants me to never leave, and yet she wants us to divorce. It's a confusing situation but I understand her so well.