Quote from: Keri on January 12, 2017, 09:53:46 AM
Well, I didn't say I didn't enjoy women's clothing, but that's not the whole of my world...........Now can you accept that this is as far as I want to go, in this direction?
I think you misconstrue me. I wasn't saying that you are wanting to become a full-time woman, just musing, based on the same evidence I've seen a thousand times, that your actual desire to indulge (to whatever extent that may be) is much more compelling than you're making out. You say you have no desire but I think that's a defensive play - consciously or unconsciously (and we've all been in denial about our trans!) as opposed to actual true desire.
Don't worry about having to prove yourself to me. I'm simply stating my impression (and trying to help you) that you're true desire is being repressed, knowingly or unknowingly (maybe because of your upbringing, fear that it could dominate your life and you'll lose faily & friends, fear that you'll look ridiculous - too old, tall and masculine). Either way, I'm just putting something to you for consideration, nothing more. If I'm wrong then fair enough. I'm not affected either way.
Like I said, I meet so many in their 60s who wish they'd had the courage to explore and indulge their trans side more. We only get one life, I say go for it (whatever 'it' is). I'm just convinced that if you were over here and away from your missus for a few months, that you'd have an absolute blast indulging your femme side and hitting the 20+ bars in the Village with me, hanging out with all the other trans and their admirers, and having a ball.
