Hi Ezra! (Such a great name!),
I'm P. So glad to meet you! I'm a goy but married a Jewish man. He's not religious himself, but his family is in the conservative movement. We still go to some events at the synagogue, do shabbat dinner as a family, and do holidays. I'm definitely wondering how my gender journey is going to play out in some of these Jewish spaces.
That's really tough losing your partner. We are here for you! So happy to welcome you here--it's a wonderful place.
With love,
P