Quote from: rose on March 14, 2017, 01:20:49 PM
Ignore him don't accept bull->-bleeped-<-s from guys
I mean we're fabulous
[emoji19] unless he is very handsome with six packs that kind of attitude is not ok

he is Good looking, but no abs. His stomach is flat. I feel so crappy about myself since he can take that other transgender out but won't take me out, he has met me in person at my job and knows how I look. He wanted to take me out last night but I rejected him because of the transgender thing and then I changed my mind. I think he's going to stand me up because I rejected him.

He stood me up.

Quote from: Angélique LaCava on March 14, 2017, 07:28:39 PM
He stood me up.

I'm so sorry. I'm not a man-hater, but I feel the pain right now. You're a beautiful woman, (no, I shouldn't judge outer beauty! But when drinking, I'm honest, you're far more beautiful on the feminine side than me).

He was probably playing games, thinking he find someone better, more feminine. He's probably attractive though.... but yet in his mind he rather be with a genetic girl.... and that sucks so far. --to those who accept TG no offense please, I rather be born cis-gender woman--.

I hope all is well. Being transgender is like a curse. In my opinion. I wouldn't wish this on my worse enemy. So many handsome men play with my heart... I don't know. I just dream.

Quote from: Wild Flower on March 14, 2017, 09:36:08 PM
I'm so sorry. I'm not a man-hater, but I feel the pain right now. You're a beautiful woman, (no, I shouldn't judge outer beauty! But when drinking, I'm honest, you're far more beautiful on the feminine side than me).

He was probably playing games, thinking he find someone better, more feminine. He's probably attractive though.... but yet in his mind he rather be with a genetic girl.... and that sucks so far.

I hope all is well. Being transgender is like a curse. In my opinion. I wouldn't wish this on my worse enemy. So many handsome men play with my heart... I don't know. I just dream.

hes had experience with another transgender before and liked it....

Quote from: Angélique LaCava on March 08, 2017, 01:10:58 PM
I've been that way since I started my transition 6 years ago. I wish I wasn't like that, but I am. My ex from 1 year ago, before we started dating, told me he never been with a transgender and we dated for 6 months and even started living together, but then I found out he dated 1 other 2 years before meeting me so I broke up with him and despite him coming to my house crying and begging me to not leave him saying that he didn't tell me because he knew I wouldn't go out with him, I still didn't care and slammed the door in his face and told him if he dosnt leave I'm calling the cops. Im just feeling so depressed, im rejected really cute guys over something like that. I just don't want to be compared to past transgenders.

well either way your going to unfortunately be compared to other transgenders the guys have seen online or tv or to other cis women which to me I hate being compared to but you may be surprised that you probably look better than others cause like my bf had met others and he said I was prettier than all of the others he had met and I have a feeling it would be similar for you cause a lot of other trans girls are pretty ratchet lol

also how old are the guys who are comparing you to others? cause if they are between 18 and 24 that could be why... young guys are super immature really and older guys can be better....im not talking way older but between 26 and early thirties they are more mature or likely to not have those stupid unrealistic expectations common in guys of this generation....they are also more likely to want relationships and typically act more like a gentleman I've found whereas young guys will try to split the bill and stuff like that...

Quote from: Annabolton on March 14, 2017, 09:39:26 PM
well either way your going to unfortunately be compared to other transgenders the guys have seen online or tv or to other cis women which to me I hate being compared to but you may be surprised that you probably look better than others cause like my bf had met others and he said I was prettier than all of the others he had met and I have a feeling it would be similar for you cause a lot of other trans girls are pretty ratchet lol

my most recent ex was like your boyfriend. Said he seen transgenders before, but I was the prettiest, unfortunetely things didn't workout because I lost my sex drive due to hormones and we would fool around and right before he finishes I would stop him because I wouldn't be turned on anymore and I would always leave him with blue balls. Like since month 6 I can get horny but it's hard to and it only lasts so long.

I have a sex drive that's on the low end too but I typically "help him out" whenever he wants despite....and ironically hes never in the mood when I am so...ya.. lol

Quote from: Annabolton on March 14, 2017, 11:42:58 PM
I have a sex drive that's on the low end too but I typically "help him out" whenever he wants despite....and ironically hes never in the mood when I am so...ya.. lol

my ex was very aggravating as f***. He wouldn't leave me alone even after I said no then he would still try to turn me on but I'd just fall asleep lol. I kinda wish my sex drive was higher because if it was me and him would still be dating. I also was hoping me and him would still date because he said if we dated for so many years he would pay for SRS.

I think there is only one type of comparison anyone should ever do to their girlfriend or boyfriend.

"You are the most beautiful person I've ever known" and variations thereof. Anything else is unnacceptable, IMHO.

Hugs
B

Men lie. I hope you don't really believe them. I'm sure it's a small minority.


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