After my SRS in 77, pretty much had a stealth life. Not fully as my whole family knows, and the job where I transitioned. Also since I had Secret to Top Secret till I retired in 2011, they knew I was Trans back to my Navy years in 72-73. After that in 1993 any new jobs were stealth.
Can't say it is much different now, but in 2015 I came back to the LGBT community. Things have changed a lot in 38 years. Still debate on just how much I want to be out.
Was no on-line for most of those years. Went on-line FB many years ago, but it was for just my family. Started adding other friends in the start of 2016. Don't really have any TG stuff on there, so still kinda stealth.