I've been on HRT for over a year now (No SRS yet) and my orgasms have dwindled down to a small O and zero to near zero fluid release. I have always enjoyed my male orgasms for how intense they felt , ignoring the mild dysphoria involved with them. As I've been on HRT I've noticed they are growing less and less intense to the point that they are almost duds or even painful at times now. They are short and there is no lingering afterglow for me. In addition my genital dysphoria has gotten worse over time since starting HRT. I don't have access to SRS anytime soon, so I'm trying to find out if there is anything I can do to make sex more enjoyable? My girl friend likes to be penetrated and I haven't lost the ability to do so. PIV is still our main form of sex, although my erections are barely getting the job done now. Any help or advice will be greatly appreciated.

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I can only speak from my experience. 90% of it is what state of mind you have at the moment. Reconnect with the feeling that you used to have and try to go back to that situation and condition, touches will help but it is useless without the willingness of the brain to be in that state you used to know.  Find it and you'll find your mojo back.

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It won't help with penetration, but I'd recommend getting a hitachi; they're amazing. My partner and I use it together and it's satisfying for both of us. Your O's will be more intense if you take your time getting there [emoji39] it's a completely dif feeling than PIV though, so that might help with the dysphoria


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HRT converts your sexual response to a feminine response. This means you have to be prepared for sex through foreplay.  Hugging, rubbing above the belt or thinking sexual though if done correctly will cause a warm glow all over your body. Once you reach this state, you can proceed below the belt and it should be far more enjoyable. I have done this just through imagination and I have caused this to happen in another just through voice coaching so you can lay in a relaxed position and envision the process. One warning and that is once you get the warm glow, it will last so plan on a little time when you do it. I was also a little nervous about triggering it again for another day.

I usually just think of Desmond Tutu when engaging in sexual activities.  Gets the job done no problem.

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I usually just think of Desmond Tutu when engaging in sexual activities.  Gets the job done no problem.

I gave this a try and couldn't believe how well it worked! This girl is on cloud 9! I'm still quivering

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