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OMG My Mother Just Destroyed Me (in a good way)...

Started by AlyssaJ, June 27, 2017, 09:02:09 PM

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georgie

#20
June 28, 2017, 08:28:48 AM
That was just lovely!

Happy! Happy!

Georgie
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Megan.

#21
June 28, 2017, 08:31:23 AM
That's wonderful,  I'm crying on the train and people are staring! I'm sad too, as I'll be having the same birthday in only a couple of weeks,  but my mum would rather me dead than know her own daughter.

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AlyssaJ

#22
June 28, 2017, 08:47:29 AM
Quote from: meganjames2 on June 28, 2017, 08:31:23 AM
That's wonderful,  I'm crying on the train and people are staring! I'm sad too, as I'll be having the same birthday in only a couple of weeks,  but my mum would rather me dead than know her own daughter.

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Megan, thank you for your kind words and although it's early, happy birthday to you!!  My heart aches hearing about your mother. I'll never understand how a parent can react that way to their own child. I do hope you're able to rise above and have a spectacular day.  Take care of you!!!  ;D
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Megan.

#23
June 28, 2017, 08:51:12 AM
Alyssa,  thank you and Happy Birthday too! And don't worry,  I'll be having a great day 😉.

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ds1987

#24
June 28, 2017, 09:41:19 AM
There she goes, giving me the feels before I've finished my coffee...

Thank you for posting this.  It means a lot that you share yourself in such a way, and this is a huge celebration.  Happy birthday!

Much love,
Aria


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Alora

#25
June 28, 2017, 10:57:44 AM
OMG I did cry!! Such an amazing card. You are such a lucky gal to have parents like that in your life.


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Denise

#26
June 28, 2017, 12:32:59 PM
Tongue in cheek... That was mean.

Did she know the effect it would have on you?  I would have had to leave I would have been crying too much and making a scene. 

Your mom is awesome!

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AlyssaJ

#27
June 28, 2017, 12:44:27 PM
Quote from: Denise on June 28, 2017, 12:32:59 PM
Tongue in cheek... That was mean.

Did she know the effect it would have on you?  I would have had to leave I would have been crying too much and making a scene. 

Your mom is awesome!

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LOL yeah all I can say is thank god for waterproof eyeliner and mascara or I'd have been a total mess.
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KathyLauren

#28
June 28, 2017, 02:22:45 PM
Awww!  That was beautiful.  I'm crying now.  You are one lucky girl to have such wonderful parents.
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eyesk8rboi

#29
June 28, 2017, 02:27:18 PM
Quote from: AlyssaJ on June 27, 2017, 09:02:09 PM
My birthday was this past week.  Unfortunately my parents were out of town at a wedding so tonight they took me out for a belated birthday dinner.  After we ordered, my mom slid an envelope across the table to me, it was blank but I correctly assumed it was my card.  My mom is very into crafts and one of her hobbies is making greeting cards, so like so often is this case, the card inside the envelope was a one of a kind made just for me.

When I read the card, I couldn't hold back, I just started bawling right there in the restaurant.  Here's what it said inside:

I'm not crying....YOU'RE CRYING!
Steven Lee | 24 | Dog Dad | Beginner Figure Skater | Aspiring Writer


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AlyssaJ

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June 28, 2017, 02:37:45 PM
Quote from: transguymac on June 28, 2017, 02:27:18 PM
I'm not crying....YOU'RE CRYING!

LOL Starsky and Hutch, well played!!!
"I want to put myself out there, I want to make connections, I want to learn and if someone can get something out of my experience, I'm OK with that, too." - Laura Jane Grace

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Jamie 65

#31
June 28, 2017, 02:41:12 PM
Such a great story, this made me happy today
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Sarah77

#32
June 28, 2017, 04:12:41 PM
This is so beautiful. This post should be pinned for all the people wgo struggle and go through dark days.

I'm so happy for you
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Rambler

#33
June 28, 2017, 04:18:16 PM
You're so lucky to have such great parents! I'm busy making preparations to be completely disowned before I come out to my own family  :-\
Up and away and off I go to lose my mind and find my soul.
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davina61

#34
June 28, 2017, 04:26:19 PM
ohhhh its made my eyes moist, so sweet XXXXX D
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Laurie

#35
June 29, 2017, 01:35:53 AM
Hey! I already had sniffles and tear tracks. Did you have to refresh them? Good story Alyssa. Thanks for sharing an late Happy Birthday

Hugs,
   Laurie

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