Cailin,
It is nice to meet you!!! You and I share a similarity I kids as well I have 5 boys and an ex that I know doesn't feel that a man should want to be a woman. So, I am deciding myself how to navigate all this and androgynous seems like easiest for myself as well in certain social interactions. It is nice to see that I am not the only one that struggles with this. It is good to meet you on here again and if you have any suggestions or advice for me, feel free to message me.