Good way of looking at it sailormars .. I am winning I'm finally going to get to be a woman!!! It's so exciting I'm just so scared I know I have a tough road ahead of me

I'm glad you found the strength to do this!

Welcome back, and congratulations! GD is a nasty monster to fight, it's sneaky & brutal at the same time. I honestly don't know how I lasted as long as I did (30+years) alone before finally doing something about it! Having an awesome & supportive wife must be wonderful!

Welcome back and don't worry about the pace. As is often said, you will be making steady progress.