i am deleting my acct i just cant do this anymore its to much thank you for the helpful advice and your kind wars

Alice

Sorry your leaving

Quote from: stephaniec on August 31, 2017, 02:57:20 PM
Sorry your leaving

Me too. So what's up? What's got you so down.

Its because i feel like all om doing is whining and im just in a bad place with dysphoria.  i feel overwellmed and i feel like i cant contribute:(

Thank you

Quote from: alice1234 on September 02, 2017, 10:05:38 AM
Its because i feel like all om doing is whining and im just in a bad place with dysphoria.  i feel overwellmed and i feel like i cant contribute:(

Thank you

That will change with time as you come to accept yourself. Susan's exist just to help people like you who are having a problem making it to the goal line. If there weren't people to help, I wouldn't have anything to do. Some day in the future you will be able to contribute but for now, just work on yourself and stay with us.

Quote from: alice1234 on September 02, 2017, 10:05:38 AM
Its because i feel like all om doing is whining and im just in a bad place with dysphoria.  i feel overwellmed and i feel like i cant contribute:(

Thank you

We've all been in that "Bad Place". I for sure am generally overwhelmed between the GD and dealing with life in general. If I can't whine here, then where?  With my therapist?  I sound like a broken record as it is with the same crap over and over.

BTW - there is no rule about "contributing". The whole concept behind a place like Susan's is finding comfort in knowing you are not alone.

Agree with what has been said here. I am real sorry things are not working out as planned. I was reading a few and only a few posts you have made and I thought somewhere it said you have been living full times for like 9 years now? If dysphoira is really bothering you this badly still PM me sometime, depending on what it is I may have a couple of pointers to help you. No on deserves to suffer, and running off and away from a support site will likely do more harm and probably not any good. Remember, we got your back <3

Keep your account, and take a break for as long as you need. I kept running to the wall with my head down since 1997.  3 years ago I finally broke through. You can quit but you don't have to leave.  Or as once sang " you can check out any time yu like but you can never leave "  ( it will never go away ) 

Don't leave. I wrote the same thing more than once. Bitching and whining is why we are here. You have to get it out before you explode. At least leave the account so you have it just in case. For me there are so many things there is not really an answer for, that I just have to get out. Venting helps a lot. There are just some things you have to tell someone. Someone who cares that will just listen and not judge. And here you will find that.


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