This is kind of a weird question I know. I have a skin tight spandex body stocking. I don't wear it anyplace I just put it in every month or so to see the progress of my ass,hips and body in general. I had it on last night and asked my brother how I looked. I like to get a male opinion too. He said I looked really good but I needed to gain a little more weight, which I'm working on and that I maybe needed to do something different with my " private parts" as he worded it. I thought my tucking was spot on since my crotch is totally smooth. He said that was the problem. It was too smooth and flat. He said a woman's crotch isn't totally flat like a Barbie doll, that they have a little mound down there. He also said if a guy sticks his hand between my legs and doesn't feel anything at all he's gonna think something is not right. I never thought about being too flat. I thought the flatter and smoother the better. I don't know anyway to tuck that would leave anything like a mound. It's all or nothing. Does anyone know a way to tuck that looks more realistic?

I think flat down there is very realistic, wish I could do that without pain (I'm about to start HRT, pretty sure I will be able to then). 

To show how ridiculous things can get a radio interviewer asked Lady Gaga if she was male.  Apparently some people think she isn't flat enough down under. 

Didn't yon mention that your brother doesn't have much experience with women? So what does he know?
Anyway, you could always wear a pad to give a little more bulk.

Its called the mons pubis.

Yeah, I always wondered why people referred to it as "flat," because women aren't truly flat either. They don't have a big genital bulge, obviously, but there's the mons pubis, and some women do have bigger vulva than others, too.

I actually wore a girdle rather than tucking. It provided a little reinforced "shelf" to rest everything on, which meant that a) my mons pubis was still visible and normal and b) if anyone did have weird questions, "I'm wearing a girdle for tummy control" would be a perfectly normal answer for a cis woman too.

Well, genitals come in every size and shape. I don't think that being too flat would make others think something's wrong. Cis girls can be extremely flat, or look like they have a chicken stored down there. My girlfriend is a cis woman, but has a protuberant mons pubis and and considerably sized vulva, so a few people confused her for a trans girl.

I don't think you should need to worry about being "too flat"

You could always wear a "cameltoe panty". They are sold on Amazon, and would help you look female down there.

Quite the invention - what will they think of next.  And I learned something new today!

You could tuck and buy one of those fake camel toes. 

Quote from: transguymac on August 14, 2017, 08:57:09 AM
You could tuck and buy one of those fake camel toes. 

I liked at those on amazon. I couldn't believe they make those! I don't know if I would have the nerve to wear one in public. I've heard both girls and guys say really nasty stuff about girls with a cameltoe. On the other hand it would help me pass more with anyone who might question if I'm trans or not.

Julia

Sometimes I get absent minded or just do things wrong.  What if I wore it backwards?   Imagine the Amazon feedback.

Quote from: Kendra on August 14, 2017, 09:31:39 AM
Sometimes I get absent minded or just do things wrong.  What if I wore it backwards?   Imagine the Amazon feedback.

Thats hilarious,😂😂

Quote from: Kendra on August 14, 2017, 09:31:39 AM
Sometimes I get absent minded or just do things wrong.  What if I wore it backwards?   Imagine the Amazon feedback.

I would love to see what George Takea could come up with - he's so clever with Amazon reviews!

Quote from: Kendra on August 14, 2017, 09:31:39 AM
Sometimes I get absent minded or just do things wrong.  What if I wore it backwards?   Imagine the Amazon feedback.

Quote from: KageNiko on August 14, 2017, 12:11:07 PM
I would love to see what George Takea could come up with - he's so clever with Amazon reviews!

My husband works in an office setting and is constantly complaining of lower back pain, but no anymore! I ordered this cushion and while he's stated it can be minor uncomfortable it's nothing compared to the back pain he was previously experiencing. Whoever invented this, you are a genius. I know what my whole family is getting for Christmas this year!

My only question is who in their right mind would grab a woman's crotch other than in an intimate setting? I'd beat them back to the stone age...

Quote from: Julia1996 on June 17, 2017, 07:34:13 AM
... asked my brother how I looked. I like to get a male opinion too. He said I looked really good but I needed to gain a little more weight, which I'm working on ...

I'd be wary of deliberately gaining more weight just to make your figure more feminine.  It might not appear in the places that you want it to.  I'm not an expert but I would have thought it best to eat a normal, healthy diet and let your female hormones decide how to distribute your weight. 

It's kind of hit an miss, but some women's shorts and undies give you sort of a accidental cameltoe look. I recently bought a pair of Hanes girls' jersey shorts-- before I realized they were a child's size-- but as it turned out, they work great for keeping things tucked and give a nice cameltoe look (http://www.ebay.com/itm/Hanes-Girls-Jersey-Short-/401343641774?var=&hash=item5d71f1f8ae:m:m24To1khIb6UdNZMKdWWk2Q. I'm normally about a 29-30 in the waist and the girl's size 8 was a bit tight in the waist, but tucks me wonderfully. I later picked up a size 10, which isn't as tight, but doesn't tuck quite as efficiently.

However, unless one is working a street corner (so to speak), I don't think the shape of your crotch area is really that much of a fashion issue. Even jeggings and very skinny jeans don't have to be so tight as to outline a ladies genital anatomy. I tend to think people like us (with a bit more down there) should best dress a tad more discretely than that, thus avoiding the issue of detailed crotch definition.

Quote from: Harley Quinn on September 12, 2017, 09:22:19 AM
My only question is who in their right mind would grab a woman's crotch other than in an intimate setting? I'd beat them back to the stone age...

Nah, not necessary.  I see a patent idea.  High voltage camel toe underwear!  Make sure one side is well-insulated.

Quote from: Harley Quinn on September 12, 2017, 09:22:19 AM
My only question is who in their right mind would grab a woman's crotch other than in an intimate setting? I'd beat them back to the stone age...

Believe it or not there was a prominent politician recently who bragged that he really likes to do that.

Quote from: Harley Quinn on September 12, 2017, 09:22:19 AM
My only question is who in their right mind would grab a woman's crotch other than in an intimate setting? I'd beat them back to the stone age...

If someone was wearing a false cameltoe, would they necessarily realise that their crotch was being fondled?  I suppose that the fondler's breathing and facial expression might be a clue.

Quote from: Janes Groove on September 12, 2017, 10:22:01 AM
Believe it or not there was a prominent politician recently who bragged about the fact that he likes to do that.

Don't talk like that about the C in C!