Sometimes I wonder, is there a trans gene? I've first wondered about this a few years ago when a cousin once approached me and told me that he is "like me" and wanted to talk about it. Considering that it happens to 1 out of 50-100,000 people where I come from, the chances of it happening within the immediate family are pretty slim... but of course it can happen.
Sadly this person is no longer with us so we will never know the outcome.
Today I had a strange experience with my niece, something which brought these thoughts back into my head. I have not seen my niece for 5 years and she is now 16. We spoke over IP with webcams active so we could see each other very clearly. If I had not known better, I would have sworn I was speaking with her older brother, she both spoke and moved like a boy and all her hand movements were boyish. It freaked me out and I found myself asking key questions like what she was into these days etc to get some sort of a hint.
Now, I know there are many tomboys out there and fingers crossed that is what this is all about, but I couldn't help but think back to my cousin and to wonder... could it be in the genes?
Obviously, as I said, my niece could just be a tomboy, or lesbian or worst case scenario she could be trans. I certainly am hoping for one of the 2 first options, nobody deserves to have to go through all the crap a trans person does. But if that be the case, she couldn't be in a better family for it.
and so it goes...