Quote from: whingingpom on January 28, 2018, 03:11:51 PMNobody's proud of me. I think I'm just supposed to disappear now.

I am proud of you.  You reached out to this community, which is something that many spouses don't consider.  You are seeking understanding even though your spouse seems intent on dumping you. 

I am truly sorry that you are going through this.  There is no way to make it right, but thank you for trying.