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Re: What made you happy today? For mtF members only, please. 3.0

Started by Denise, September 18, 2017, 09:25:20 PM

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jill610

Quote from: Colleen_definitely on February 08, 2018, 07:39:07 PM
My experience is that the only really vigilant people were the check in attendants at the airline check in stations.  Even though I was male failing hard, and looked nothing at all like my ID the TSA never really batted an eye at it.  I got a lot of "this looks nothing like you" from the airline attendants.
Yeah I have seen a lot of the same. A check in agent in Phoenix did a lot of the look at the DL then me and repeat.


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ToriJo

My name change was approved by the judge today!  I am really me now.

While I was filing some paperwork at the court, I was sitting with a group of other women - just being one of the girls (who complimented me on my earrings), with their children running around us and climbing over all of us - so much fun, and such a rare treat to just be able to be me.
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ChrissyRyan

Quote from: ToriJo on February 08, 2018, 08:59:13 PM
My name change was approved by the judge today!  I am really me now.

While I was filing some paperwork at the court, I was sitting with a group of other women - just being one of the girls (who complimented me on my earrings), with their children running around us and climbing over all of us - so much fun, and such a rare treat to just be able to be me.


Congratulations!   :)

Chrissy
Always stay cheerful, be polite, kind, and understanding. Accepting yourself as the woman you are is very liberating.  Never underestimate the appreciation and respect of authenticity.  Help connect a person to someone that may be able to help that person.  Be brave, be strong.  A TRUE friend is a treasure.  Relationships are very important, people are important, and the sooner we all realize that the better off the world will be.  Try a little kindness.  Be generous with your time, energy, wisdom, and resources.   Inconvenience yourself to help someone.   I am a brown eyed, brown haired woman. 
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Sarah_P

Jill, ToriJo, congratulations to you both!! I should be getting both name change & gender marker done myself next week.  ;D

Steph, Colleen, thank you! I've been astounded at how well the public has accepted me at work. I was half expecting torches and pitchfork wielding villagers surrounding the building, though.  :D  Gives me more hope for not only this country but humanity as a whole!
--Sarah P

There's a world out there, just waiting
If you only let go what's inside
Live every moment, give it your all, enjoy the ride
- Stan Bush, The Journey



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Colleen_definitely

Where you live that truly is impressive.  Well, if one uses stereotypes to judge anyhow.  (nothing personal, but your state does get a lot of flak for being kind of really backwards, not to say that MO is much better)


I also quickly realized that I was worrying myself sick over nothing.  Most people simply don't care.
As our ashes turn to dust, we shine like stars...
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Sarah_P

Quote from: Colleen_definitely on February 08, 2018, 09:46:03 PM
Where you live that truly is impressive.  Well, if one uses stereotypes to judge anyhow.  (nothing personal, but your state does get a lot of flak for being kind of really backwards, not to say that MO is much better)


I also quickly realized that I was worrying myself sick over nothing.  Most people simply don't care.

Exactly! I guess I should be glad I'm not in western KS, that probably WOULD have been bad. Don't worry, I'm one of the first people to badmouth this state. I'd gladly move elsewhere if the opportunity arises, though.
--Sarah P

There's a world out there, just waiting
If you only let go what's inside
Live every moment, give it your all, enjoy the ride
- Stan Bush, The Journey



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anne_indy

Had a wonderful day today. It started with getting myself ready to be out and about. Went to DSW and was able to find some nice knee high boots that fit, then was able to have  an infrequent face-to-face with my therapist. Following the appointment I headed to meet my dear friends Tia and Debi at a major shopping mall where we had great talk while having a meal together and shopping, all of us enhancing our wardrobes. They have helped me greatly to emerge into myself, and today was another significant step forward.


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TonyaW

Found out my hearing date for name change.  First full day of spring will be the first legal day of Tonya!

Judge hasn't sent the paper down yet so will be next week before I can take care of that stupid newspaper publishing. 

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Denise

Quote from: jill610 on February 08, 2018, 07:40:37 PM
Yeah I have seen a lot of the same. A check in agent in Phoenix did a lot of the look at the DL then me and repeat.

They're envious.  They wish they could transition too.
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jill610

Quote from: TonyaW on February 09, 2018, 08:23:19 AM
Found out my hearing date for name change.  First full day of spring will be the first legal day of Tonya!

Judge hasn't sent the paper down yet so will be next week before I can take care of that stupid newspaper publishing. 

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Congratulations! I spent my morning at the courthouse and it's going to be May 9 for me!


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steph2.0

Quote from: Colleen_definitely on February 08, 2018, 09:46:03 PMI also quickly realized that I was worrying myself sick over nothing.  Most people simply don't care.

Exactly that!

At the Oshkosh aviation convention there's a big sign near the flight line where they conduct pilot briefings. It says, "DON'T DO NOTHING DUMB".

If you're not getting in people's faces and drawing excessive attention to yourself, the rest of the world has its own problems, and they don't even see you. Act confident, even if you have to fake it, and know that you belong there. Easier said than done. Believe me, I know. But give it a try, and you might be surprised.


- Stephanie


Assigned male at birth 1958 * Began envying sister 1963 * Knew unquestioningly that I was female 1968 * Acted the male part for 50 years * Meltdown and first therapist session May 2017 * Began HRT 6/21/17 * Out to the world 10/13/17 * Name Change 12/7/2017 (Girl Harbor Day) * FFS With FacialTeam 12/4/2018 * Facelift and Lipo Body Sculpting at Ocean Clinic 6/13-14/2019 * GCS with Marci Bowers 9/25/2019
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MollyPants

I got to work home today which was great. I spent all day dressed in what I like to wear and even ventured out as well :)

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Phoenix1742

Quote from: Roll on February 06, 2018, 09:04:42 PM
Scheduled first laser on beard tomorrow! STUFF IS FINALLY MOVING AGAIN.
I didn't find the pain to be that bad - mostly just an occasional sting, almost like being snapped with a rubber band.

The smell though... that's absolutely awful.

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I Am Jess

I was talking with a friend who mentioned that we were close to being in the same generation.  She was telling me that even though I'm younger than her I would probably still know what she was talking about.  I was a bit confused by that comment and I asked her how old she was and she said 48.  I told her she had things a little backwards since I am almost 9 years older than she was.  She didn't want to believe me. lol
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Cassi

Good for you Jess!

If what my niece is telling me is truth it seems that "E" may be the Fountain of Youth for us older than dirt women :)

BTW, loved your wig and colors, brings out your eyes even more.

I've been thinking of experimenting with color a little bit myself.  There's a temporary hair dye at Walgreens that's not too expensive and I could play with it to see what I look better as.  I have always been a blond but looking for something that makes me look awesome :)
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Allison S

I got progesterone today from my new endo who was very nice and caring. He took 30 mins with me I was shocked but pleased. My first hrt doctor barely spent 10 mins with me lol

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Roll

Quote from: Phoenix1742 on February 09, 2018, 12:33:41 PM
I didn't find the pain to be that bad - mostly just an occasional sting, almost like being snapped with a rubber band.

The smell though... that's absolutely awful.

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I didn't have any smell during mine. Wonder if she was using a low setting to draw it out for money, heh. :D The feeling to me was more like... hrrm, well, it felt more like plucking a few hairs at a time. But when other people do it, not when you do it. (It's more painful when you pluck your own! :D)

Anywho, today I came out to the last of my siblings, my step-sister. I am now out to every last immediate family member, blood and step- alike, as well as spouses of said siblings. I have two aunts I'm going to tell before I just do a general announcement, but otherwise I'm out to friends and family that matters.
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Cassi

The twin sisters have been acting up for two days now.  The braille appeared on the aureola of both a few days ago (Montgomery glands) and nips are sore :(
HRT since 1/04/2018
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Cassi



Montgomery glands, sometimes also referred to by their more technical name "areolar glands," are small glands located on the areola of the female breast that produce an oily secretion designed to keep the nipple moisturized and protected. Lubrication is particularly important during breastfeeding, and as a consequence the glands often work the hardest in lactating women; oily secretions are a normal part of breast health, though, and can be triggered by ordinary stimulation, too. The glands are generally sensitive, and blockages and other problems can lead to serious consequences.
Appearance and Location

Most women have between five and 20 Montgomery glands on each breast, and they are located just below the surface of the areola. The areola is the circular area of darkened skin surrounding the nipple. The primary reason for the discoloration of this area is that the areola roughly outlines the location of the mammary glands, which is where milk is produced and travels to the nipples through a network of lobules and ducts.

Even though the glands sit right on the surface of the skin they aren't usually visible under normal conditions. Certain hormonal triggers will cause them to bump up slightly, though. Pregnancy is one example: pregnant women often experience small raised pink or red bumps, often in a ring formation around the nipple, when the glands are stimulated. Arousal and pressure, often from tight-fitting clothes or bras, can also trigger this reaction. These bumps are usually considered very normal, and they usually subside on their own with time.
Basic Role and Function

The glands are named for the Irish obstetrician William Fetherstone Montgomery, who was the first to identify what, exactly, their role was back in the 1800s. He surmised that the oily secretions that happen during stimulation and breastfeeding were coming not from the milk ducts themselves, but rather from a separate glandular area that simply responded to triggers in those regions. Modern breast science has confirmed that he was correct.

Nipples are made of somewhat sensitive tissues that are more prone to environmental dryness and irritation than normal skin. The main job of the glands is to secrete enough natural oils to keep them moisturized and protected against the outside world. In most cases surface oils can also serve to keep foreign objects out by creating something of a surface barrier at the nipple's tip.

Infection and Irritation

The Montgomery glands' position right on the surface of the breast means that they are sometimes susceptible to infection or irritation. Infection is often related to mastitis, a problem involving the mammary glands as well as surrounding glands and tissue. It is most common in lactating women, and medical treatment is almost always required in order to get rid of the infection and keep it from spreading.

A condition commonly referred to as "jogger's nipple" also involves irritation of these glands. The correct term for this condition is "fissure of the nipple," and it happens whenever the nipples are subjected to repeated, constant stimulation that overwhelms the glands' ability to keep up with adequate lubrication levels. The "jogging" name comes because it happens a lot when sports bras or shirts chafe the skin during exercise. Common symptoms include dryness, soreness, or bleeding involving one or both nipples. Some medications can help speed healing, but in most cases time and reduced friction are the only cures.

Certain medical problems can also cause the glands to clog or stop working properly, which can lead to a host of other problems. Dryness and itching are usually near the top of the list, but clogged ducts, swelling, and breast tenderness are also generally included. It's usually rare for problems to strike the Montgomery glands alone — usually problems happen elsewhere in the areola and mammary glands at the same time — but it is possible. Usually only a medical professional can make the distinction and final determination, though.
Problem Solving Tips

One of the best ways for people to avoid problems with these glands is for them to work at keeping their nipples protected. Joggers and runners should find sports bras that fit properly, for instance, and if pressure is still a problem it may make sense to place a bandage over the nipples before beginning an exercise regiment. The bandage will act as an effective barrier between the skin and clothing. Surgical tape often works as well to prevent damage from occurring.
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ToriJo

I started my conversations with HR about my transition (which are going well, I think) - it's going to be an interesting career journey, but I'm looking forward to it, and it's really exciting to be bringing the last piece of my life where I'm not me into conformance with who I am.  It's hard to believe that I'm going to be full time less than a year after I started this process of transitioning - when I started, I said it would take me two years, but it is so wonderful to be me and I've lived long enough that the girl in me is ready to be out everywhere.

It'll be interesting to be the sole representation of a woman in my part of the company.  I think I'm up to it though.  :)
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