So is your goal to just speed of the process of having your body move fat around from male spots to female spots or are you trying to lose weight or both?
Disclaimer: I am not a doctor nor a nutritionist so please do your own research.
From what I have been reading we really don't have much control at all over where our body decides to take fat from when we are losing weight or where our bodies decide to put the fat back when gaining it. This is probably pretty much controlled by genetics.
One thing we do have some measure of control over though is when our bodies add fat. If you eat more than you consume, your body stores the excess into fat. Another way to add fat as I understand it is to consume more fructose. Glucose is a simple sugar that our bodies use and it can be metabolized by any cell in our body for its energy needs, but Fructose is only able to be processed by the liver. Based on information that I got by watching the documentary "The Skinny on Obesity", available on Youtube is that fructose is such a high concentration of energy that frequently the liver just converts it straight to fat regardless of if you are eating a balanced caloric diet. In other words, the conventional wisdom that a calorie is a calorie regardless of its source may be wrong.
Being that I am trying to lose around 100 pounds from where I started (320), I am on a ketogenic diet. The idea is that you restrict carbohydrates do less than 20 grams per day which forces your body to use a process called ketosis to convert fat into ketones which your body can use in lieu of glucose for its energy needs. I still have to follow the rule of burning more calories than I consume, but since I am not consuming many carbs, my body is burning fat just about 24/7. As stated earlier, I really don't have control of which fat I burn though. So far it is coming off somewhat evenly over most of my body.
One seemingly side benefit of my fat loss pattern is that I am not really losing much in my chest area, so as my waist goes down, my chest looks proportionately bigger (I am not on hrt yet). Anyway, when I get to 15% body fat at around 225 pounds (currently at 273), I will start hrt. I have never had so much motivation to lose weight
Anyway, I really hope that this helps
Julie