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In your opinion, what is it that makes you feel the most feminine?

Started by SashaHyde, February 10, 2018, 10:42:27 PM

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heather3791

I guess I'm just a real girly girl. Love pink polish and tights/leggings.
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CallMeKatie

I feel like a girl but feeling girlie...probably long hair. Guys almost always have short slair so long hair makes me feel very girlie
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natalie.ashlyne

Well I have always felt female inside, I tried to act like what I thought was male and I failed at that mostly cause head aches and heart aches. I always liked female things and wanted so much to do them but was never aloud to I would literally  get beaten  by my father. When I turned 16 and my dad was out of my life I started doing female things removed all my body hair, nail polish , eyeliner lipstick  , pierced  my ears and tongue had gel nail French manicure had my eyebrows done bought female underwear got a "tramp stamp" lol bought more female clothes had one night stand with guys while dressed as a female it took a while for me to realise  and accept that I am not  male I was pretending  to be male for other people and I hated every thing about  myself at the time. I felt like I was living a lie. I was never good at talking to guys about guy stuff but woman I could talk to about anything. I realy did not care to hear guys talk about girls that much as it made me feel uncomfortable but I was ok with girl talking about guys. Basically  I was in denial myself. Which for me is wierd as everyone in my life says I am on the top of everything  that comes into my life that I have to deal with. But an item that makes me feel girlly is eyeliner mostly sorry for the long paragraph
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MollyPants

For me it started with things like lipstick and nail polish and then more colourful clothes and being more and expressive. At moment I think it's being able to let my emotions out rather than bottling everything up and hopefully in future when I get hrt my most feminine will be my curves :)

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VickyS

At the moment, it's having longish finger nails, shaped and with clear varnish on, coupled with my small hands and having removed any arm/hand hair.  When I look at my arms/hands they look very feminine.  ;D ;D
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SashaHyde

Quote from: natalie.ashlyne on February 16, 2018, 12:17:00 PM

I was never good at talking to guys about guy stuff but woman I could talk to about anything. I realy did not care to hear guys talk about girls that much as it made me feel uncomfortable but I was ok with girl talking about guys.

Gawd talking men is THE worst, lol
--Sasha  :P
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JinnieY

For myself it's definitely the bras! They just gave me the security I need for my femininity, haha. But it gets a little bit uncomfortable if I wear them for a really long hours. Second thing that makes me feel more fem is makeup!
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Mendi

My name, my real and official name!

I was surprised after I got my name legally changed, how relieved I was and how I felt much much more complete and feminine.
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krobinson103

Quote from: JinnieY on February 17, 2018, 08:44:03 PM
For myself it's definitely the bras! They just gave me the security I need for my femininity, haha. But it gets a little bit uncomfortable if I wear them for a really long hours. Second thing that makes me feel more fem is makeup!

I always feel good when I can let the girls go free after all day in a bra. Thing is if the aren't contained they get a bit painful if I move too fast.
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Holis

Well people say that I am gifted to see how other people feel and all little kids smile at me.
My godchild sometimes calles me "mom" and sometimes "dad". That's pretty much how I feel though.
When my roommates say "You are the best stay at home mom!"
Or when my grandma used to say "You have the hands of a preacher."
Some kind of androgynous just feels right :)

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HappyMoni

It's weird, but I feel most feminine when guys who knew me pre-transition, treat me as a woman now. My one brother is so protective of me now. It makes me feel very feminine. I love it.
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Chelsea

Right now for me I'm gonna say makeup, bras, sexy underwear. :) Hopefully after starting HRT I will get the curves.
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bri325

Quote from: SashaHyde on February 10, 2018, 10:42:27 PM
For me its wearing a bra. And I cant wait for hrt to make me smell more like a woman.
Honestly for me personally my inner being I am feminine I don't need outside things or items to be feminine. While certain things can enhance it. I am feminine and quite happy being so


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Stevie

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FinallyMichelle

Quote from: HappyMoni on February 18, 2018, 09:53:59 AM
It's weird, but I feel most feminine when guys who knew me pre-transition, treat me as a woman now. My one brother is so protective of me now. It makes me feel very feminine. I love it.
Moni

I like that. 😊 Have to agree.
I think it is probably close to the same for us as any woman. Makeup is a big one for my friends, I think that when I start to wear it I will feel the same. Clothes and jewelry make a difference. My one friend has certainly underwear combos that make her feel feminine, I believe that her favorite is a loose, silky teddy bottom with a loose, silky cami top.

For me it is always in the way a guy treats me, it can even be as small as opening a door for me. I had opened a door for a guy one time as he was racing to try to beat me to it. We laughed and he ignored the open door and opened the inner door waving me through. I laughed again, as I was walking past he said, "Let the guy get the door, he'll want to know he deserves a smile like that." I said thank you and we both laughed again. I was on cloud 9 the rest of the day. 😊 My boyfriend is amazing in this capacity, I think that he wakes up some mornings with his only goal making me feel feminine. God I love that man.
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flytrap

Other people's acknowledgement that I am a girl. The same for my male alter, Primary. Other than people's perceptions, neither of us think about gender. Each of us is is just who they "are."
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DawnOday

It started with jacks, hopscotch, foursquare and dress-up with the girls. But the thing that sustains me now is that I am finally able to have a free mind. Once I came out, I stopped being afraid. I still have my doubts about other people but I have no doubts in me. In fact, loving myself is the most femme thing I do.. after a lifetime of self hate.
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First indication I was different- 1956 kindergarten
First crossdress - Asked mother to dress me in sisters costumes  Age 7
First revelation - 1982 to my present wife
First time telling the truth in therapy June 15, 2016
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bobbisue

      I love the makeup clothes jewelry but for me it is being myself with others without the wall of fake masculinity I  hid behind I am me now and loving it

     bobbisue :)
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Sno

Quote from: SashaHyde on February 17, 2018, 03:36:38 PM
Gawd talking men is THE worst, lol

So with you on that - nothing quite drives the point home that you're not a part of that tribe, quite so quickly:)


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Cheaney

Getting boobs is a big one for me. My hair is one that kinda snuck up on me how important it is to me. Having longer hair because I've never had it before.


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