Quote from: Julia1996 on February 19, 2018, 11:01:16 AM
That's something else that really pisses me off, the need people have to let EVERYONE know you're trans if they out you. This happened to me at the mall once when I was with Tristan. I ran into this hateful girl I went to school with. Of course she recognized me, there aren't many albinos running around in Denver. This stupid girl saw me as she walked past me and made a point to turn around and come back. She asked Tristan if he knew I was a " dude" and and the guy who was with her told him he was ###g a "dickstump". He asked the girl what of it and told her she was a bit uppity for a swamp donkey. Then he just looked at the guy and said " got anything else to say mate?" He didnt. When people out any trans person in public they are putting them in danger. What if Tristan hadn't known I was trans and reacted badly to finding out? He's 6'5 and all muscle. One punch would totally destroy my face and it wouldn't take much from someone that size to kill me. I'm pretty sure that's what the girl was hoping for. People just suck!

Good thing that Tristan put them in their place! The way you describe him, he seems like a really good boyfriend.

Quote from: Charlie Nicki on February 19, 2018, 01:16:50 PM
Good thing that Tristan put them in their place! The way you describe him, he seems like a really good boyfriend.

He is a good boyfriend. When I first told him I was trans he wasn't immediately accepting.  But after he thought it over he decided he was ok with it since I'm having surgery soon. Thankfully he's secure enough with himself and his masculinty that comments about me being  trans from others don't really phase him. A couple of times other guys have told him having a trans girlfriend makes him gay. Both times he said they could think whatever they wanted but that if he was gay he would be with a guy. I got very lucky with him. My biggest concern when we started dating was how he would react to stuff other people might say to him about having a trans girlfriend. Thankfully it doesn't bother him.

Quote from: Julia1996 on February 19, 2018, 11:01:16 AM
I'm pretty sure that's what the girl was hoping for.

That's exactly what happened to the late Gwen Aruajo.

Quote from: Julia1996 on February 19, 2018, 03:21:41 PM
He is a good boyfriend. When I first told him I was trans he wasn't immediately accepting.  But after he thought it over he decided he was ok with it since I'm having surgery soon. Thankfully he's secure enough with himself and his masculinty that comments about me being  trans from others don't really phase him. A couple of times other guys have told him having a trans girlfriend makes him gay. Both times he said they could think whatever they wanted but that if he was gay he would be with a guy. I got very lucky with him. My biggest concern when we started dating was how he would react to stuff other people might say to him about having a trans girlfriend. Thankfully it doesn't bother him.

That's great Julia. I know you don't like pictures but hopefully one day you'll post a pic of yourself with him so we can see this handsome guy and you as well

Yes! Julia show us a pic or two of you and Tristan. Give us some hope girl

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This is where thick skin really comes to play. Those guys have nothing better to do than to seem cool in front of their friends that's all. I'm sorry this happened to you. Just ignore it and keep it moving, pay them no mind.