Quote from: Julia1996 on February 22, 2018, 10:15:07 AM
I'm the same way. Before transition I hooked up with gay, bi and confused guys because that's all that was available to me then. But now that I've transitioned I only like straight guys.

I can't hook up with guys who are anything else than straight. My type is the " alpha male " . I'm not into sweet, sensitive boys. I am into fashionable, alpha males who will show me every little corner of the room. Even submissiveness is a turn off for me. When a guy tells me he is submissive I would be so repulsed by it. It's just tied in with my straight identity as a woman : a guy needs to be the dominant one, I am the only submissive girl in the room.
I would even be repulsed by a guy who is all hunky but loves to wear lingerie from time to time.
I'm into traditional men who love to take care of their family and expect me to be traditionally feminine.
In a few years I dream of having a little family, a hubby who takes care of us ( me and the kids ) . It's just so difficult being non-op. I wonder how I will function as a mother with a penis. It kinda repulses me.
Anyway :-P

I hadn't thought about a submissive guy before. I guess that would be kind of a turn off for me. Tristan is very dominant in the bedroom, so much so that at first I wasn't sure it was going to work. He would never hurt me or anything but he's very much into BDSM and bondage. I had never experienced anything like that so at first it kind of unnerved me. As for a guy wearing lingere, yeah, that would be a deal breaker for me.

I guess pansexual would be an umbrella term for me, but I'm really attracted to guys and some transwomen. 

I think I've been through most of the labels in my lifetime.  lol.

I don't know how to to label it, so bi I guess. I mostly attracted to women emotionally . Both women and men sexually . Mostly attracted to my partner. But non practicing sexually for almost a year.

Something ive actually thought alot about

i am sexually attracted to men, but feel more romantically attracted to women, i think as a long term partner i would end up with a woman who accepts that i am not a guy, i am a trans woman and therefor does not want that role of a guy in the relationship, i never have

ive also thought about the idea of dating a fellow trans person, either ftm or mtf, but idk

Honestly, I am all over the place but I find myself more attracted to females.

Genuinely don't know. Before I realised I was trans, I was a gay male. I don't have a clue now

I have an aversion towards penises whether it be mine or someone else's[emoji52][emoji28] Also, I only find women attractive. Hence, I'm lesbian through and through[emoji12]

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Straight (a little bi) now. That was actually one of the weirdest things to deal with in transitioning, as presenting as male before I was gay (a little bi), and to have the label on my sexuality shift to the other end of the spectrum like that took some getting used to. But I realize I never really 'fit' as a gay man, I was basically a straight woman pretending to be a gay man... Okay, I think i'm making myself dizzy now... 

Well I am now attracted to Males that are into females, I am not attracted to gay males. There is just one female now that I am attracted to I am not attracted to any other females so I don't fully know if some one can tell me or explain I would appreciate knowing.

I like guys, cis or trans, but I kinda prefer the trans guys, since I don't have to explain, explain, explain myself to them.

I am only interested in men.

Lesbian with a minor in homoflexible?

I'm attracted to more or less everything about females ... Well less to some butch energy but butch women imx are so much cooler than males.

Not to be completely down on the guys, I know a handful of well adjusted men who's company I genuinely enjoy and definitely have some attraction to male genitalia.

Since transition I've regained my interest in leathersex and my new lover is a really fun switch femme. Life isn't always easy but it sure is good right now :-)

Well hon, you asked.

1 - My therapist: My therapist told me I am sexually interested in man and romantically in woman.
2 - Legally: I am female and married to a cis-gender female, so legally I am a lesbian.
3 - My current thoughts about man: I am getting more and more curious into being with man, especially after my GRS.
4 - My current thoughts about woman: I am super attracted to woman as they are so glorious and understanding.

I don't want to call myself Bi-sexual, but... hmm.. idk. Lesbian mostly I guess. Definitely a DIY active sexually. Does that count?

When most have responded in a few days time, it will be interesting to see final statistics.

Quite a few early responses were Asexual primarily if not entirely - interesting.

I'm bisexual. Both men and women turn me on. Femme or "soft" men and women.

I'm pretty sure I'm a lesbian.

Quote from: Julia1996 on February 22, 2018, 09:25:33 AM
I don't think so. There are a lot of people who can't or don't want SRS. That doesn't make them less trans or less female. SRS doesn't make you female, your heart does.

Yes I agree don't need SRS to make you less female

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I had to look up some of the terms that have been used in this thread. 😃

Men only, so that makes me straight right? I guess that a bi man would be okay, I have in the past though it didn't last but not because of his sexuality. I have never dated a trans man but I think that would be okay. Submissive would not work for me, I am sorry there is nothing wrong with that but I have had it happen.  The effect was like he slapped me with one of those fish they feed the penguins at the zoo. Definitely not for me. Because I am slightly taller than the average guy I have had them come in to kiss me like a girl, just eww, instant turn off. So anyone who tries to put me in the dominant or masculine role is definitely out. I didn't like it when I was trying to date women, way back when, and I began to resent them for it, I definitely have no desire for a man to treat me that way. I don't think that I am submissive or I am but I cannot be hit or tied up, not ever. I can't.

I think that I am straight, I definitely am NOT into girls so.

 You mean there others to be attracted to that aren't female or some form there of? I guess that would make me a lesbian though I will admit to a curiosity about a man but no more.

Hugs,
   Laurie