Quote from: Alaskan Danielle on April 09, 2018, 03:09:28 PM
To try to have some continuity I am quoting my previous post on this thread that talked about "Male Suitor #1" ..... I am aware that you girls that have already commented on this thread wondering about him.... he is probably 5'11" or perhaps taller, dark hair but slightly balding, in good shape and no beer belly!!! He dresses immaculately.... I found out that he works as a manager at a nearby store. The day after he brought me coffee he asked me to go to dinner with him, which after procrastinating for over a week I finally caved-in and agreed.... this was all very exciting for sure but also very nerve wracking and I was a bundle of nerves as the date approached.... since he dressed so nicely I picked out one of my nice dresses and my fairly high heels so I could at least be up above his shoulders.... since we had snow on the ground I had my boots on when he picked me up and changed in the restaurant. He was such a gentleman, held the doors for me, held my hand as we walked on the snow... worried I might fall I suppose.... or perhaps it was his excuse to hold my hand 
I was so nervous but VERY RELIEVED when we got into the restaurant to sit down, his good friend and his friend's girlfriend were waiting for us.... so it was a group dinner date... which was just fine with me because all of this is so new to me. The girlfriend and I went to the women's room to freshen up and she was so nice, when we were in front of the mirror let her have some of my perfume that she liked and I had no indication that she suspected anything about my past. I guess that I overdressed, she was in slacks and a sweater top.... she even complimented me on my dress and my hair.... but I would rather over-dress than under-dress. We all enjoyed the early evening dinner... when he took me home and walked me to my door, holding my hand again, he gave me a hug and a quick kiss on the cheek... I appreciate the fact that he is somewhat shy and taking it slow..... there will be more about "Male Suitor #1"... because he asked me on another dinner date... but not before Male Suitor #2 appeared....
.....more coming soon....maybe later today.... I have to do lots of work now...... the Income tax deadline is at the end of this week and all the procrastinators are showing up at my business to get their taxes computed and filed............
Danielle
So, here is tonight's update: Yes, Male Suitor #1 did ask me on another date but that is for a future update....
As I have written about before on other various threads, I regularly once a week go to the local gym with a group of cis-female friends that I met after I had relocated here 18 months ago. We have a lot of fun, and "some" good exercise too!!! One time in the locker room after a sweaty workout I was struggling to get out of my pull-over sports bra... usually not a problem, but when sweaty it can be a bigger problem... my feeling is that one has to be a contortionist to get out of them without dislocating a shoulder. Next time I buy a sports bra it will be a front closure for sure.
Several of my friends were laughing at me as I was struggling... I finally got it off and there I am bare chested in front of my cis-women friends.... one of them spoke up right away and complimented me on my figure and curves..... wow-whee, that was a great confirmation and boost to my confidence and was so very great to hear.
As I have stated before, I just about know for sure that no one here in my small town knows of my male past... at least not yet. One thing that is on my mind is that when I do get serious about a relationship with a Suitor... it will be incumbent on me to tell them about my past before it goes past a hug and a quick kiss.... or two.
If (or rather, when) that happens and particularly if the relationship does not go forward then it may be only a matter of "microseconds" for everyone to know in this small conservative town. At that point I would then be the one telling the townspeople, my clients and my male and women friends that I have developed since I moved here BEFORE they found out about me via the town gossip... the town gossip center seems to be at the nearby coffee shop I go to all the time!!! What a web I seem to be caught in.
On one of my visits to the gym a nice looking really buff fellow (Male suitor #2) came up to my treadmill and started chatting... he wanted to take me out to dinner the next night.... I told him that I would think about it.... I really don't like this guy however because his is very full of himself and comes off as arrogant and God's gift to women... plus he was moving way too fast for me.... not like the slower and shy Male Suitor #2. I eventually declined the date offer but in subsequent visits to the gym he keeps coming on to me. My women friends usually come to my rescue and get me away from him.... thankful for that!!! I have a feeling that I will be writing more about Male Suitor #2 in the future however.
I am running out of time, I am still at my office and I have finished my light take-out dinner from the coffee shop and I have more tax work to do tonight.
Nand next time, next update....more about Male Suitor #1 and the 2nd dinner date.....
...and a new Male Suitor #3 that I have mentioned earlier in this thread, he is the one that brought me coffee and chocolate chip cookies... I had posted a picture of the coffee cup with the pink lid... and the cookies he brought me ...before I ate them. Stay tuned and thanks for reading and following....
.....and if you have any suggestions or comments please reply! I think I need your help at times.Hugs
DanielleNote: I wish I could get all of you reading this a giant big bag of buttered popcorn!!!
*****Oh, and by the way, soon you will be all caught up with my updates and then I will be posting stuff as it happens.... soon.
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