I'm sure that all of us on this forum believe that to be true, but of course in reality it is far more complicated. As far as being taught that in college, it would (unfortunately) depend on which college, what professor, when, etc. in other words, it is still not a universally held understanding. Of course it is good that you are seeing a therapist who believes that. No one should be counseling regarding gender issues who doesn't. Good luck! :-) Nancy