Greetings and welcome to the community, Gloria!
I'm so sorry to hear that your HRT hasnt been as effective as expected! What I usually hear is visible changes in 3, then 6 months. What has your endo been saying? Did they not have you on anti-androgens?
Having a good diet can help, exercise, too. Jessica made a great post about nutrition there is lots of info there! I, myself, do the glutes workout on
Spotebi.com. and recently, I've taken to waist training with a corset and it can definitely help support a more curvy midriff.
Hopefully, your journey starts picking-up speed and you blossom more fully soon!
Take care, enjoy the forums and have fun with all the great people here at Susan's!

Much love,
Eryn