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Would you have a baby?

Started by Devlyn, May 28, 2018, 06:14:54 PM

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If you have the equipment, or could get it, would you bear a child?

Yes
36 (69.2%)
No
16 (30.8%)

Total Members Voted: 52

Devlyn

Just interested in how everyone feels about this. I expect an overwhelming "Yes" vote, but we'll see.  :)
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Doreen

Quote from: Devlyn on May 28, 2018, 06:14:54 PM
Just interested in how everyone feels about this. I expect an overwhelming "Yes" vote, but we'll see.  :)

Still not ruling out the possibility.. I'd say yes, if my partner agreed to it.
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Mariah

Do to my kidneys and to protect my health I would have to say no. Hugs
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DawnOday

Luckily I had two babies and it was such a wonderful experience. I took care of them while Mom got to sleep. I had not really lived until my son was born in '86. Then assigning him my higher power, and then his sister three years later. I would love to have all the female attributes and abilities. But right now all I can handle is Grandbabies.  :D
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Nova_Noelle

I would utterly cherish the ability to become pregnant and to give birth to a child.  Although, at this point, even if I magically became a genetic female with a fully intact reproductive system, I'm not sure if having kids is what I would want.  Of course if I had a stable life and a loving husband I would seriously consider it. 

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Janes Groove

No thanks. Can't stand kids.
Don't know how women put up with it honestly.
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samanthabwolfe

Quote from: Devlyn on May 28, 2018, 06:14:54 PM
Just interested in how everyone feels about this. I expect an overwhelming "Yes" vote, but we'll see.  :)

I think so. I don't think I'd be a great dad, but a mom? I could see myself in that role. I had some excellent teachers in both ways, my parents are awesome, and I love them with all my heart. I would love that but as a father I don't think I see it. if I could be a parent, I'd prefer to be a mother. and if I had the equipment I'd happy try with the right partner.
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natalie.ashlyne

 I would love to have kids if I could I have always wanted kids and was always envious of girls that had kids.
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Sno

A magical miracle child.

Add on to the list the miraculous curing of my other "issues". Yes I'm old for that bundle of joy, but I'd take my chances...

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Rachel_Christina

If I had the equipment of course!! But not with some odd hack medical thing.
Unfortunately in that regard I don't think it will ever happen


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sarah1972

After 10 Years of trying we pretty much had given up but decided for one more try.
Now we have a crazy cute Baby girl and her pediatrician calls both of us Mom.

Always wanted to have kids.

Would I want to be pregnant myself? Not sure, but given that I have one child, it is a lot easier. On top I am just too old.
Would I breastfeed? Sure! With lots of training, this is actually possible


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Eryn T

I would love to be a mom! I was always terrified of becoming a dad, not because I didn't want kids, but I never really felt like a proper father figure- and well, now I know why! lol

But, having a baby? Nope. Call me a pansy.

My wife's friend recently was in labor for 36 hours, which is apparently not all that uncommon, and I heard they no longer perform C-sections(no idea what those are, but I have an idea of what it could be)

My wife always wanted kids, but is also terrified of having them. She has polysistic ovaries and endomitriosis(i probably spelled those incorrectly) which are some big words that said she has only like a 3% chance of getting pregnant even under ideal conditions.
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No im not really a kid person... idk maybe it might be different if i had the right parts
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pretty pauline

Absolutely YES!!! I'd love to conceive for my husband, we live and sleep together as husband and wife, I would have made a perfect Mom, I do all the housekeeping cooking cleaning etc in our marriage, all the things a wife normally does for hubby, but I can never conceive his child, I'd love to have his baby, but it's never going to happen in my lifetime.
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I've always loved kids. One of my greatest sources of sadness is that I will never be able to carry a child, to the point I want to scream when I see complaints about periods or other hardships associated with the ability to become pregnant. I understand it's difficult, but to me it is a sign of potential greatness.

I hope to be in a situation at some point I can have a family and adopt, but who knows if I'll ever be able to even do that? (Not being willing to adopt would probably be a relationship deal breaker for me, even if it would just remain in theory and never actually happened.)
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Yes, inwould love to be able to produce my own children. Maybe one day I can get a womb!
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Nova_Noelle

I feel the same way as Eryn:

Quote from: Eryn T on May 29, 2018, 07:10:50 AM
I would love to be a mom! I was always terrified of becoming a dad, not because I didn't want kids, but I never really felt like a proper father figure- and well, now I know why! lol

I could never see myself in the role of a father.  If I were to ever have kids it would have to be as a mom.  I have always been a nurturer and I think that I would be well suited to be a mommy. 

I used to wonder if I would want to go the route of freezing some of my sex cells in order to possibly have my own genetic children one day.  However, I have come to the realization that I never want to be anyone's biological "father."  That would be so weird for me.  I have nothing against any of the girls here that have had their own biological children, I think it's awesome for them but it just isn't for me. 

Maybe, in I hope the not too distant future, if uterus transplants don't become successful (I think this may take many years) it would be great if medical technology could advance to the point that same sex, transgender, and any other couples with reproductive complications could genetically have their own children together.  I think that geneticists may be very close to being able to combine genetic material from two parents regardless of their gender into one embryo that could develop via surrogate if necessary.  But, I'm not a genetic scientist so what do I know, lol.

Anyway, I do hope that in the near future that anyone that wishes to have a baby with a partner will have the possibility to do so. 

Have a lovely day everyone. 

With Love,
Noelle
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Nova_Noelle

Whoa, I just quoted myself in the first person.  Oops!!

I meant to quote Eryn:

Quote from: Eryn T on May 29, 2018, 07:10:50 AM
I would love to be a mom! I was always terrified of becoming a dad, not because I didn't want kids, but I never really felt like a proper father figure- and well, now I know why! lol

But, having a baby? Nope. Call me a pansy.

My wife's friend recently was in labor for 36 hours, which is apparently not all that uncommon, and I heard they no longer perform C-sections(no idea what those are, but I have an idea of what it could be)

My wife always wanted kids, but is also terrified of having them. She has polysistic ovaries and endomitriosis(i probably spelled those incorrectly) which are some big words that said she has only like a 3% chance of getting pregnant even under ideal conditions.
Have courage and be kind.
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Jin

With one more qualification, I have to also be magically re-gifted with a youthful body! I doubt that I could handle the 24/7 care giving intensity at my age.
it might be worth it just to induce lactation! I loved it when our children were young and my male breasts would produce a tiny bit. All natural, no added chemicals.
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