Chelsea,
You are gorgeous. Don't resist seeing what all of us can see so clearly. That is the unanimous opinion of all of Susan's Place.
It is good to hear your business is coming along. It is a never ending battle to keep new work coming in but you are up to the task. Quality work, delivered on time, is its own best recommendation.
Your mother is going through the process. She obviously cares a great deal about you and surely wants what is best for you. Show her, through your day to day life, that this transition is what is best. When she does realize that this is what is best, the change of attitude will be irresistible, automatic, for her.
Keep busy with working at the business and on your voice. Stop worrying about your appearance. You got that nailed, girl. Above all, Be happy!
Stevi