Hi, I'm Xuexue, and before saying anything I wanted to read some of your stories. They are deep and real and what I seek to learn so it is lucky for me that this site is here.

I've variously identified as a femboy, a GQ person and a transvestite and the crux moment of the last few weeks was when I caught a look at my well-dressed self by surprise, though I'd thought I was looking through a window at someone else. So that was me, and it seemed as though that was who I was meant to be. It threw me into confusion, but delighted confusion: there is a goal I welcome, and it is in deciding the path to take to it where I will welcome wisdom.

I will do much more reading than talking here, but one of these days there will be a wall o' text about where I came from and how I finally managed to stop vacillating. -X

@xuexue 
  Hello Xuexue,
I see that this is your very first posting and you have just become a member of Susan's Place so please allow me to give you my Official Welcome.

I am glad that you have taken the step to become a member of Susan's Place and that you have shared your  thoughts with other members here on your first posting and thread.

I am thinking that you may lots of questions and concerns, this is the right place for you to be to find out what others have done that may have been in your circumstances.
 
Be aware that there are lots of members here that can identify with what you may be going through.

Please allow me to also WELCOME you to Susan's Place.  You will find this a safe and friendly place to share with others  and to read about others similar trials, tribulations, and successes.
It is nice that you had signed up so you can share with others and involve yourself with some give and take with other members.
When frustrated or if you have successes you can share it here if you wish and receive support from others and offer support to others. ....

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welcome to the forum, xuexue, reading on your introduction , i say you're on the right path, the 'who is that lovely sexy person in the mirror looking back' is really exciting isn't

Hi Xuexue 

Welcome to Susan's Place    Glad to have you here, join on in the fun

Hugs

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