It has come to my attention that it's likely more dangerous out in public social spaces for transwomen than it is for transmen, in general or on average. I'm detransitioning after a long transition and many people around me (also strangers) believe I'm a cis guy cause I both passed well and was stealth in many spaces in my small village, during my ftm transition. So now, also with my effects of the testosterone I took, it seems I'm often perceived to be a transwoman, or a crossdresser.
I present feminine but struggle a bit to fully pass as my birth sex now, I'm legally male and have a male name legally, my ID-card shows me as a man. So that comes with some social issues and I feel a lot more unsafe for how I present and how I come off now, compared to when I was non- and barely passing ftm transitioning.
I've noticed very clearly that people seem a lot more threatened/uncomfortable by my presence when they assume I'm a feminine amab person, than they did when I was assumed to be a masculine afab person. I feel much more like a target for sh*tty people now. And I can only assume that maybe some transwomen have similar experiences with that.
However I've not gotten into any actual trouble yet, thankfully. I've only gotten disapproving/frowning looks from strangers, them avoiding eye contact with me, avoiding using any pronouns for me, and even avoiding talking to me at all. I mean people like store clerks and staff at sport halls, etc, whom are necessary to interract with from time to time.
As for sexual invites/encounters, I obviously can't know from own experience how it is or can be for transwomen.
