awww, Lola is a great name for a dog

AS far as a place for being yourself... I've made massive strides in a very short amount of time towards achieving that in my real life... the remainder of the way will probably be quite awhile though, however, you never know I suppose. A month ago I had a goal to actually go "out" in a skirt. My goal was to do that on New Years Eve. Well, one day after dark I brought Jasmine outside, and I was to lazy to take off the skirt and change. It was such a great night, I just said... "f it, I'm going for a walk", and off Jasmine and I went. I was so happy and excited to be out walking my dog with my skirt and new faux leather/fur boots

I even stopped and spoke with several people, and I only felt slightly nervous.... getting closer and closer to being completely myself

I'm so glad that you have found a place wehre you can be yourself Jasmine... well, you know, all of us can. It is an amazing thing after 4 decades, that feeling of freedom of being yourself. It seems so simple... my mind wanders easily and I write the same way lol sorry ....

Anita